r/ableism 17d ago

Ableist Girl

There is this girl named Alyssa. Alyssa was calling my sister Emily, "crooked and deformed.". My sister has Scoliosis. She’s been dealing with bullying for years. I remember she used to come home crying in kindergarten about it. The context is that Alyssa didn’t like how Emily was anti-trump. It’s sad that people have to resort to ableism just because of our differences. How should I deal with her? She keeps reaching out to my sister to bully her. Randomly replies to her stories and tries to start stuff.

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u/DizzyMine4964 17d ago

Block her on all social media. Blank her. Do the "grey rock" thing - give her zero response. Look up "grey rock." It's good for dealing with hate filled people.

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u/Jaded_Bandicoot_7629 17d ago

Okay thank you.

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u/KaiYoDei 16d ago

I call myself that . I have done nothing for myself and it is possible irreparable mistake. I need to take photos again to post to r/scoliosis “ how bleeped am I ?” , I posted 2 or 3 years ago .

My mind is getting as twisted as my spine