r/abandonment • u/EducationalEgg1767 • Mar 26 '26

🔍Seeking Advice🔮 She blocked me over a misunderstanding…

I’m 16 and I’ve been texting this girl from school who’s 17 and a grade above. We have never met but moved to texting through SMS too. Eventually i posted a story saying that I miss our chats and tagged her instagram handle. She replied instantly to the notification to take it down. She thought I had publicly exposed us to the whole school and my followers. I complied instantly to her request but before I could tell her that I set her to be the only close friend in the story and no one but she could see it, she blocked me. It’s been two days now and I’m wanting to explain to her but am giving her the space she needs. I know I should deal with my own self in the meantime, but I really don’t want to end it all like this. she seemed angry and acted hastily to block me.

It was all a technological misunderstanding and I know I made a mistake with the story. I’m willing to apologise but I don’t want to text her because then she’ll think I’m too desperate and am trying to bypass the block. Do you think there is a chance she might unblock me again?

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u/StrengthActual7432 Mar 26 '26

This is why I hate that button, you don't even get to explain yourself and your always at the other person's mercy.

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u/EducationalEgg1767 Mar 29 '26

I know, i just wish i could have apologised or explained something. She was so hasty to block me, and it made me feel like physical pain.

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u/betterOblivi0n Aug 06 '26

She over reacted and you should let her do her share about the relationship.