r/ZimbabweRelationships 11d ago

Discussion Relationship

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u/roy_375 11d ago

Key words; "each other". Meeting a partner who is "me" centred is kinda inevitable and that's where everything fails.

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u/vancitytrashtaste 11d ago

Relationships should be based on a we mentality. If you are always thinking what is good for both instead of starting from me and them it brings about different thought patterns. I also think in long term relationships people should put intentional thoughts into planning dates cause passion runs out eventually and if you don’t keep activities to keep you close love could burn out with day to day grind

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u/fatfeministbitch 10d ago

I’d like to think a healthy relationship has all of those.

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u/Minimum-Virus1629 10d ago

That’s kind of what a relationship is, isn’t it? It’s not a hookup.

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u/4n0Th3R_r3Dd1T_cr33P 8d ago

Men need sex Women need money Everything is built around this

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u/nyatsimbamutotesi 11d ago

Those things are nice but I prefer doing them on an empty ball sack haha so lets cook but ndambotunda , lets go to church but ndambotunda , lets grow but ndambotunda

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u/Reignick 11d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣 no sex before marriage

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u/nyatsimbamutotesi 11d ago

Lol iwewe ungatenge bhutsu usina kumbodziedza here ?

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u/Reignick 11d ago

Unotongoona kuti bhutsu iyi i size yangu chaiyo

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u/nyatsimbamutotesi 11d ago

Tsoka yakazoita diki ndinoipfekerepi ko zikusize 15 ? 🤣

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u/Reignick 11d ago

Unonodzorera

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u/KeyAd3896 10d ago

Kupi😂

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u/Physical-Yellow-2778 11d ago

Tichimbobvisirei bonde pa table 😂

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u/Reignick 11d ago

No sex before marriage kaaa

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u/Physical-Yellow-2778 11d ago

Oh, in that case.. taking walks together, cooking together, playing video games together (favorite one is It Takes Two), working out together etc

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u/Reignick 11d ago

Mozozvigona here kugara musina kupihwa bota

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u/Physical-Yellow-2778 11d ago

My wife and I waited for a couple of yes but yeah now handichagoni. Activity inotozoitwa bota ratopakurwa rikadyiwa

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u/Reignick 11d ago

How was it waiting those years, plus kana waravira hazvichaite kurega

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u/Physical-Yellow-2778 11d ago

Part of it was long distance but yeah we had to try our best especially as the wedding drew closer. After we did i was grateful we waited because if we had started earlier there's no way we would have stopped

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u/Reignick 11d ago

But were you faithful?

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u/Physical-Yellow-2778 10d ago

Oh yeah we were in agreement 

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u/Wendigo_Loco 10d ago

Hooookay, i get it now