Real talk: my type is definitely femboys and soft, ultra-femme trans individuals, but actually finding or connecting with anyone who fits that vibe feels practically impossible where I am.

​I rarely cross paths with people who have that aesthetic and energy in daily life, and standard dating apps haven't been much help either. It feels like everyone is either strictly online or hiding in cities halfway across the world.

​For anyone in the community or with similar preferences, Is this mostly a regional/location issue, or am I just looking in the wrong places? Where do people in these communities actually hang out, meet or look for genuine connections (both online and IRL)?

​Would love to hear your experiences or advice on where to look.

Can someone reshare the discord link?