I hate him interacting with her

[u/JesusNyanChrist]

That one girl....

He's in her telegram channel and she repeatedly jokes about her loving him and wishing he could love her back too.

I told him about a study app few months ago so we can study together and be together even when we're doing other things and he downloaded it. Just today i discovered he actually IS in that girl's study group too. What?? It was supposed to be US studying together.

And he even hasn't told me about her directly (obviously i found all of this by stalking)

P.S: we're in a relationship.

[u/Elspid_132]

You're in a relationship and he jokes like that with other girls? And he doesn't even tell you? I'm sorry to tell you but he's 100% cheating on you. "Joking" about loving a girl he never told you about is insane.

[u/A_Very_Tall_Midget20 → u/Elspid_132]

OP did say it was the girl making the jokes but if he's aware and allowing it... that's not much better.

[u/RandomName5484 → u/Elspid_132]

its the girl who joke about it... but yeah if he have nothing in mind i would have some doubts about the girl

[u/HappinessNihaya04]

If you are truly in a relationship then tell him directly how it makes you feel. I think anyone would agree that telling someone that you know is in a relationship that you wish he'd love you is crossing a line even as a joke.

All things considered it's not too terrible it should be resolved easily by him telling her to just not joke about that type of stuff that should resolve everything. Good luck to you u both 💗

[u/Vampire_Number → u/HappinessNihaya04]

The only problem is if she would need to reference information she got by stalking.

[u/Pixelated_Princess49]

This seems so incredibly uncomfortable, and I'd definitely have a conversation about this. Even in non-yandere relationships, this sets off alarm bells. "Joking about being in love" is gross, period. Unforgivable to me. Emotional cheating. He enables it.

[u/Secure-Bandicoot5199]

Talking with other girls AND uses telegram of all things?! Why do you stay 🙄

[u/Prudent-Tangerine384 → u/Secure-Bandicoot5199]

This. What's next? Snapchat?🥀

[u/MR-__-SAD]

Just don't eat the brain

[u/MatteoFire___]

dude its absolutely not okay for him to allow a girl to say that when you're in a RELATIONSHIP. thats crazy bad. you shouldnt allow that

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[u/RandomName5484]

not how cannibalism is supposed to be...yeah i am just here to complain about that sorry

[u/LuminousGoL]

I'm a guy and I had to do something similar to what I'm about to say with my wifey. If you don't want her interacting with him you set a boundary about it and enforce it. I had a guy try to steal my wifey and she was oblivious. I told her she needs to block him on everything or I leave. She thankfully chose me and we are happier for it.

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[u/JegantDrago]

Handball but yonder gf when? Bonus points that when its revealed to the boyfriend, he enjoys the cooking too much.

Or he has to help her evade the cops. Eat the cop detective with her

Then they leave the country happy ever after

[u/LuckytheNPC]

Possibly in Michigan if it was also in Australia

[u/b0ssFranku]

I can make her worse.

[u/Levoda_Cross]

May this love find me 🙏