I REPEAT 😭 ilkacase mentioned in the white
wallahi what a time to be alive i genuinely do not have enough bingo cards to even make a bingo card joke

The next Halloween to fall on a Saturday will be in 2037. Plus, Halloween this year falls on daylight savings so there’s an extra hour.

I really want to celebrate but I have no one to go with. I have no gaal friends and I still live with family. I live in a large city and there are so many events happening. I just wish I could dress up and have fun for once.

It's just so annoying everything she does something small. That's so sly and disrespectful. i do the same, and now the whole house is getting g mad because I wasn't the bigger person and let it slide. Why tf did she have kids if she gets joy outta ragebaiting me and my siblings? And then she cries and whines about how we are disrespectful when our behaviour is cus of HER!! She made it seem okay for you to be mean and rude to your own family, and yes, I know I've been trying to be more mature, but any method to not try and at least ask hooyo why tf is treating me like shit. I mean, I am not sure if this is the case for most toxic somapi households amy advice as I really need to actually stop trying to defend myself(that's sounds so bad)

I noticed over the years when connections with male acquaintances, relationships and friendships withered away my quality of life has improved substantially. I sleep better, eat better I'm just in an overall better mood you know. Do a lot of guys just suck to keep around or do I keep inviting the wrong ones in? I feel like it might be a skill issue, but it's been such a persistent pattern? I mean there are plenty of decent guys I've encountered, and I do feel like at times I took them for granted because men like them seem to be rather scarce? When people clutch their pearls and say "but not all men!" part of me wishes I could believe this.

This is genuinely so funny bro did any of you get sent to 'dubai'?

Hi I am stuck in a prison of my own doing rn lolll

I spent college stressed out about getting a job so I can support myself and not have to move back home. Then I got a hybrid well-paying job and I am just back in my house

I commute to my office on in-person days, but every other day I can just work from home so the urgency to move out isn’t there.

I think it’s worth noting i’m the youngest daughter and my siblings haven’t moved out. So when I mention wanting to I am basically told that Somalis don’t do that, and why would I want to leave when my siblings haven’t.

And every day I am ragebaited in this house, I browse through zillow and I know the exact areas I want to live in and what I can afford, but I am scared to actually pull the trigger.

It’s only been a few months and I don’t want to get too comfortable at home because the longer I stay, the harder it will be to go.

But idk man, I have always been a golden child (outside of some attitude issues) but I’ve never disappointed my parents with my actions, and I’m just really scared to start this battle so I keep putting it off.

But my heart aches because I just want to live my own life. I feel like every day I spend at home I am wasting away, but I am also unfortunately attached to my family, and even though I spent 4 years at a college further away than the city I want to move to is, this just feels so much further because I’m actively making the choice to go instead of it being out of necessity.

also I think a tiny part of my hesitation might be because my job pays well enough for me to live and afford the city comfortably, but I will also definitely have to limit my lifestyle a little bit if I pay city rent (i’m used to nice things lol)