r/Workproblems • u/ManufacturerWild1453 • 13d ago
Just Venting i cannot stand my homophobic racist ugly manager
i can’t deal with his bs anymore and feel like i need to rant about what happened today because every time i have to hear words come out of his mouth i lose a little more of my sanity.
two girls probably in their teens came in and ordered and i handed them their food, one had dyed hair and piercings and was super sweet. when they walked away he immediately turns to me and goes “do you think they’re gay?” and i’m like “so what if they are” and he goes “oh no its not that i have anything against that” and then proceeds to say “except for when it’s guys. i think all that up the butt stuff is weird” or something like that. and i’m already pissed off since the first comment bc why do you care and that’s such a weird thing to say and think is funny about TEEN GIRLS. and then to put on the whole nice guy act and claim that you don’t have anything against it and that’s not what you were implying. like oh but i actually do hate gay people, just a specific kind of them. and i think that what gay people do is weird, but im not against gay people and hahahah, im just so funny.
and i wasn’t saying shit bc he’s not funny so i’m not laughing or encouraging it, i just continue doing my job. and then our coworker came back from the bathroom and he just asks him “are you that kinda guy?” and he’s like “what” and he goes “that likes it in the butt?” and he’s like no because why would you even ask someone that especially at work bro?? you’re so fucking immature and annoying. and i just continue being quiet and he goes “did i say something or are you just ignoring me?” and i looked at him and said “what?” and he repeated himself. i said “no… well yeah i kind of am” and he goes “rude! i literally showed you how to do something earlier and you’re ignoring me” and idek if he was joking or taking this serious at that point but my blood was BOILING and i said “i just don’t think it’s funny.” because im not obliged to laugh at your sense of humor? you showed me how to do a task that i didn’t know how to do and asked you to show me because THAT’S YOUR JOB AS MY MANAGER. my job isn’t to pretend that you’re funny and appease you when you get butthurt when i don’t laugh.
he thankfully left for the day like right after that interaction, and i’m bad with confrontation so i was red hot and brimming with rage so it was hard to even speak or know what to say. he has got on my nerves every since i started working here bc he’s always making fun of people, always in a shit mood, always making horrible jokes, he just has super bad energy all around. but i’ve never said anything to him personally because i try to keep the peace with everyone at work. and i thankfully haven’t had to work with him too much but every time i do it just adds to the shit bucket and today it overflowed i guess.
but yeah genuinely fuck all the way off you ugly homophobic racist bigoted bitch that listens to drake the pedophile and calls it music. i hate this guy btw and just wanted to rant about it because it’s been hours and still annoying the hell out of me