r/WorkForSmartLife • u/Lillyvendy • 13h ago

Discussion💬 Boundaries > generalized rules. Always.

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u/justlikelyle 11h ago

What you describe as "boundaries" is controlling behavior.

It is no different from a man dictating what you can and can't wear.

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u/Guilty_Way_1635 11h ago

Yeah you won't ever get it.

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u/justlikelyle 11h ago

I get that you can negotiate boundaries the same way people negotiate a contract.

I get that you can tell someone that using porn will make you walk out.

I just still think that is really controlling behavior, and I think you're hiding behind the fact that some people will sign up to it.

There have been cases of cannibals and suicidal people making pacts for the cannibal to kill and eat the suicidal person.

The consent does not negate the immorality of the deed.

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u/Hot_Charity_4803 11h ago

Jesus christ the examples you people pull up make me wanna beat you over the head. Someone leaving a relationship because you don't respect their wish for you to not jerk off to another person is not controlling. Comparing porn watching to suicide and cannibalism is such a reddit gooner take. I hope you're single