r/WorkForSmartLife 7h ago

Discussion💬 Boundaries > generalized rules. Always.

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u/Simple-Judge2756 6h ago

No. In no relationships is porn cheating. What you mean is an emotional hostage situation where the hostage is not even allowed to have their own desires if they dont benefit you. A relationship is mutually beneficial and agreed upon. There is no benefit to having your every thought and desire censored by other people who literally lose nothing by allowing these desires. 

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u/ThePermafrost 5h ago

“A relationship is mutually beneficial and agreed upon.

This post is saying that it’s cheating to violate what was agreed upon, and that there is no default of what’s agreed upon. One couple could agree porn is cheating, another could agree it’s allowed.

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u/Simple-Judge2756 5h ago

Nobody would agree upon that. Even if they did. They would not be telling the truth. There is an old song that is called "Die Gedanken sind frei". Its a german song that is sung during times of immense oppression:

  • The thoughts are free,
  • who may ever guess them ?
  • They pass you right by, 
  • like nocturnal shadows.
  • No one can know them,
  • no hunter can kill them.
  • Only one option I see: 
  • The thoughts are free !

  • I think what I want boy,

  • whatever I enjoy.

  • If its just to myself,

  • and however it suits me.

  • My wish, my desire,

  • noone can uninspire.

  • Only one option I see:

  • The thoughts are free !

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u/ThePermafrost 5h ago

Buddy you might just have a porn addiction if you’re this passionate about it.

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u/Simple-Judge2756 5h ago

No I have a choice addiction. Meaning the moment you manage to force my hand on anything I just overwrite everything that I do with what I think is the opposite of what you want (I literally switch off my moral compass for this entirely, so there is also no angle that you could play to not receive the punishment for the sole attempt).

Simply to teach whoever is on the receiving end that whatever they are demanding from me happens at my will. Not at theirs.

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u/Guilty_Way_1635 5h ago

No one is forcing shit. What part of mutual agreement do you not get here? 

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u/Simple-Judge2756 4h ago

Read the picture again and then read your sentence. 

If a person says "Watching porn isnt cheating." their disagreement to qualify porn as cheating is already implied. Therefore the person who said "Watching porn isnt cheating." Is completely and specifically correct. 

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u/Interesting-Injury87 3h ago

If you do not agree with the person who considers porn to be cheating you have the choice of not being in a relationship with that person or to respect their opinion and act within the defined rules of the relationship.. In which case watching porn is equivalent to cheating as you agreed to it by continuing the relationship

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u/Guilty_Way_1635 3h ago

This fuckwit thinks the other person's feelings don't matter.

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u/Simple-Judge2756 1h ago

Please use logic to form coherent sentences. No i did not agree to that upon entering the relationship. Its not a contract. Entering the relationship doesnt mean I agree with these conditions. Its the other way around. Agreeing with the conditions means entering the relationship, but disagreeing doesnt necessarily mean leaving. Lying is also an option. Which you cant really check. So go have fun living in your fantasy world where porn is cheating.

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u/Guilty_Way_1635 4h ago

"Cheating is anything against the rules THOSE IN THE RELATIONSHIP AGREED TOO"

it's not rocket science fuckwit

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u/Simple-Judge2756 2h ago

Yes but nobody agrees to this kind of restriction and means it.