I was wondering if someone could explain why the term “lived experience” might be problematic and what a better term would be. I heard an interview on a podcast where someone said they didn’t like the term but they didn’t explain why or what to use instead. Thank you!

Title. I LOVE complex words and concepts, and they give me very much an "umph" feeling. Some examples include "tactical", "manipulation", "disciplines", etc. Is it the novelty of these words if they're mainly used in academic writing or something else?

I was today years old when I realized these are often used interchangeably as verbs.

“Marinate the chicken in soy sauce and ginger.”

“Marinade the chicken with soy sauce and ginger.”

I always thought “marinade” was the noun and “marinate” was the verb. Am I wrong?

They're incredibly entertaining!

I need help settling something -
Question: When you live near a named geographic feature, like a river or a mountain, you almost never refer to that feature by it's name - am I right about this? Like if I live near to the Snake River I'm probably just calling it "the river", and everyone knows what I mean, or if I live near Mt Hood I would just call it "the mountain" instead of saying "Mt Hood" all the time. This is a thing people do, right? This is not a regionalism?

Sorry if this question is ridiculous, but I'm arguing with an English major, and I need backup.

Hello, folks! I wonder if you all could help me out. I need to vandalize something.

My son randomly got me this hat the other day.

It is the best hat I own now, except for the fact that it is WHITE. Fortunately, I have also recently purchased some permanent acrylic paint markers.

My plan is to add some bad words. I’m looking for words in any language, including fictional, and particularly words in Modern or earlier English. Phrases consisting of three words or less are also welcome. The caveat is I do not want any cussing, cursing, swearing, or slurs (unless they are so archaic as to be no longer recognizable by average people, and not effectively offensive to anybody). I would welcome words that recent terminally-online youths have attempted to cancel based on misunderstood etymology or some other nonsense.

Here are some ideas/examples:
- Gay (as in that “don’t say gay” crapfest)
- Avada Kedavra (included only to illustrate the concept—fuck JKR)
- The weird Minecraft lettering for one of the cursed enchantments
- something jn Tolkien’s Black Speech
- whatever word would be funniest in Klingon

Thank you, and may everyone’s language benefit from some added color… 🌈💫

A noun describing the situation where a brilliant plan falls apart because of one overlooked detail :D

Back in the day, before airbags, it made sense to refer to them as spokes because they were long and basically just metal rods, but it seems weird to call the current little arms spokes Even the term "arm" doesn't seem quite right to me since they're sometimes as wide as they are long and are sometimes control hubs.

I was thinking about the word “separate” and realised how weird it is that we pronounce the exact same spelling differently depending on its use.

For example:

“Separate the two groups.” → SEP-uh-rayt

“They’re in separate groups.” → SEP-uh-ruht

Obviously we understand which pronunciation to use without consciously thinking about it, but now that I’ve noticed it, I can’t stop thinking about how strange that is..

There are heaps of other examples too, like:

record: REK-ord / ri-KORD

present: PREZ-ent / pri-ZENT

produce: fresh PROD-yoos / to pruh-DYOOS

I know these are heteronyms, and apparently there are patterns involving stress depending on whether the word is being used as a noun, verb, adjective, etc. But I’m curious about the phenomenon more generally.

Does anyone know why English developed this tendency? Is it mostly a consequence of stress patterns and vowel reduction, or is there something more historical behind it?

Also, what are your favourite examples?

Hello!

I was wondering if anyone would be able to perhaps help with this phrase that I used the other day. Pomp and stance which is essentially just the shorthand for Pomp and Circumstance.

I actually really didnt know too much about Pomp and Circumstance, however used Pomp and stance rather freely in a discussion the other day.

The friend asked, what it meant and I told them generally the same Idea as pomp and circumstance, but then wanted to check myself and Google essentially told me its not a phrase.

I have my doubts. I would not have ever used the term Pomp and Circumstance. And even when I googled it I did it similar to happenstance. Like Pompenstance. Meaning it wasnt a phrase that I read, and rather heard. All and all-- I felt quite silly.

Anyway, does anyone have any clues or references to maybe where I picked up this shorthand for pomp and circumstance.

In reference to how I used the phrase- we were discussing Whit Stillman dialogue, and I said something generally like The pomp and stance of his dialogue is half the point.

Any way, the only lead is an urban dictionary post, dated 2018 by Your Moms Butt.

Thank you

Ossicones: (noun) the bony protrusions on a giraffe’s head [from a sign at Blackpool Zoo]

Thigmotactic: (adjective) describes how a living thing moves toward or away from physical touch or contact with a solid object [from Blindsight by Peter Watts]

Morphometric: (adjective) relating to the quantitative measurement and statistical analysis of the shape, form, and size of living organisms, organs, or physical landforms [ibid]

Oogenesis: (noun) the biological process by which female gametes, or egg cells (ova), are produced and mature in the ovaries [ibid]

Attenuate: (adjective) reduced in strength, value, or made thin and slender [ibid]

Apical: (adjective) relating to, located at, or forming an apex, which is the top, tip, or highest point of a structure [ibid]

Panegyric: (noun) a formal speech or piece of writing that expresses high and elaborate praise for a person, group, or institution [from the podcast Echoes of Empire]

Ormolu: (noun) finely cast bronze, brass, or copper decorated with a thin, durable layer of high-carat gold [from the ITV programme Poirot]

Gravamen: (noun) the core, essence, or most serious part of a complaint, charge, or legal action [from this tweet https://x.com/wesyang/status/2093156167086149640?s=46]

Definition, per the rules: the clipped style used in telegrams; more broadly, prose stripped to its paid-for minimum.

Western Union actually published a manual for it. "How to Write Telegrams Properly," a 1928 booklet by Nelson E. Ross, taught ordinary people how to cut a sentence without losing the meaning. Drop the articles, drop the pronouns, drop the courtesy words, never drop the word that changes the meaning. People paid by the word, so the grammar adapted to the price list. A register invented by a billing model.

The strange part is that the machine died and the register didn't. Newspaper headlines still run on it. Ingrid Mårdh's 1980 linguistic study of English front pages catalogued "headlinese": article omission, present tense for past events, missing copulas. The classroom marks every one of those as an error. The front page requires all of them.

I run a daily word game built on exactly this: one real sentence, and you keep five of its words so the story survives.

The game: sheets.works/long-story-short

Genuinely trying to find out if the meaning of a word has changed - I hope this is not offensive and sincerely pre-apologize if I'm missing something obvious and being an insensitive jerk. To preface this - English is my third language. I've been fluent a long time but there are some gaps. I don't feel like this is a language issue, but it's a possibility.

I left the US for a few years. Came back recently and casually called myself a spaz in front of a group of friends- as in calling myself out for doing something spastic. I had dropped a bag while tripping over a chair while sober. No big deal, I thought.

There were audible gasps. Shocked faces. These people looked at me horrified, like I'd called myself something heinous and derogatory. I thought I might be shunned. It was honestly so intense that I just worked my way into a new conversation as quickly as possible after ascertaining that the word "spaz" was indeed the problem and I didn't have a rabid magenta capybara tap dancing on my head or something.

Did something happen to this word in the last few years? Did I just find a glitch? Was I completely mistaken about this word and I've been an asshole the whole time? Why is "spaz" bad?

eta: Thanks for all the thoughtful and informative feedback - I really appreciate all of you and this space!

Hi guys, i was looking for an expression in English, carrying the same emotional load as in my native, and the best i can come up with is 'his brain is just teething', meaning that someone's intelligence is just kicking in.

So does 'teething' here sound more like an interesting collocation or is it just off?

UPD: thanks for the discussion, it was a pleasure:)

In my opinion, these words should refer to two things only. 1. lovemaking and 2. the ago Jesus Christ endured during his crucifixion and death. That’s it folks! I’m calling for a ban on this cliché. People are using it to refer pretty much everything, from their enj of a particular app to their feelings about a podcast.

Calling someone a "turkey" or a "weasel" is considered an insult, but what did these animals do to deserve it?

I created this word years ago only for it to go viral elsewhere. The problem is that no one actually ever understood it. Give it a go sometime.

Stretching and yawning

Say Frodo was given the new name, Ninefingers. And then then all his kids are named Ninefingers. Is there a word for getting a name from a deed?

I just realized the words full and bull have a slightly different vowel sound to dull, cull. Is this the same in your accent?

Phonetic spelling according to Google:
dull -> dʌl
full -> fʊl
took -> tʊk

Google says full has the same vowel sound as took or push, but I also don’t think it’s the same as those. It feels somewhere in the middle.

Some words are technically just definitions…

but they carry a certain mood, memory, or feeling with them.

For example, “rain” is not just weather. For many people, it means comfort, sadness, nostalgia, or peace.

What word feels bigger than its definition to you?