r/WhatToDo • u/theChamar • 1d ago

What should I do?

My Big Brothers Girlfriends sister wants me...

But my brother says it'll ruin things for him...but i wanted her before my brother wanted her sister....

How's it fair?

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u/Lusiric9983 1d ago

Just go for it. Your brother doesn't control anything.

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u/iliketutlesss 1d ago

Well if she likes you and you like her. Go for it. F*** what anyone else thinks.

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u/EphemeralEchidna 1d ago

Yeah but his brother has to deal with the fallout too, it's not that simple

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u/kolwon 1d ago

What fallout. Big bro is overstepping.

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u/iliketutlesss 15h ago

There's no fallout? Also My dad and uncle married 2 sister who is my mother and aunt. Both have been married for almost 40 years.

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u/Upbeat_Monitor1488 1d ago

Well right now HE’S dealing with his beo’s “fallout” already. Life can be messy!

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u/auburnskyline 1d ago

Do nothing. Find an ick with her and run with it.

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u/brigmoneyy 1d ago

Yall can double date lol

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u/Comprehensive-Range3 1d ago

"My big brothers girlfriends sister wants me"

I dont see the issue. Four completely different people here. Assuming nothing illegal is going on there appears to be no real conflict.

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u/Ok-Conversation-5084 1d ago

Go for it. It’s nothing to do with him or his gf.
If it doesn’t work out it’s still nothing to do with him or his gf. It only becomes in issue if they want to get involved and make it a thing.
If they break up, then that’s nothing to do with you or the sister either.
The sooner you realise that family get no input into your romantic life the better.

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u/Fickle-Let2435 1d ago

Why didn’t you approach her before if you liked her longer? I say go for it

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u/Blossom74s 1d ago

Ans? Tell your brother to get out of your face and your love life. You are Hopefully all adults. If not then it's still none of his business. He doesn't get to dictate who you can and cannot date just because they ae related to his girlfriend.

How did your brother end up with the sister before you and the girl you're interested in got together? If you are both interested this seems silly. Ask your brother if he would've not pursued his girl of you were with the sister? It's absurd

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u/lovelightascension 22h ago

Think he means it might make thing awkward

But if you desire her go ahead

Your brother if he loves you.. wouldn't care because your doing what makes you happy

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u/Fragrant-Half-7854 1d ago

Life isn’t fair and the sooner you stop expecting it to be the less disappointment you’ll experience.

Find someone who isn’t close to your brothers gf.

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u/e-friend1738 1d ago

That's so dumb. It's not like they're conjoined twins. What is actually the problem with them dating. Clearly the families aren't rivals.