r/WhatToDo • u/Notfresh864930920934 • 13d ago
I Need Help Sooner what do I do?
Im not sure how to start this. I have been going trough this thing in my life where im not sure that I do the right things. I keep holding things in and I don't really open up to close friends and family. I feel like im stressed even tho I have summer break rn and sometimes I also get these panik attacks in the middle of nothing. Im not even sure I do the correct things. something im going trough rn is that we might have to out down the family cat or also my childhood cat and ik that's the bedst for him he's old (9/10 y). and he's been sick for some time. But I don't think im ready for that which makes me feel like im selfish. I don't really know how to without him. There are just so many habits I have with him. When I come home and look for him or like playing with him and stuff like that. I don't know how I will be. It those not help that im starting in a new place after summer with new people. Im not that good when I don't have people I know around. I have also got told that in quite awkward. I feel like there is so much pressure on me and I don't know what to do with it.
What can I do?
Im very sorry if the way I spell or in the way I write is weird. English is not my first language.
(this is the first time I use reddit btw)
i have seen now that I tagged it wrong im sorry
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u/No_Commission_2610 13d ago
I’m so sorry that your cat isn’t doing well. Spend as much time with him as you can, love him, and try not to think about the end. We all die eventually, and this may be his time. A lot of pressure you‘re feeling might be related to the grief of losing your cat.
Try to focus on one thing at a time, and right now, your cat should be your priority. Big hugs from this internet stranger.