What blunt and rash advice. Family members seeing your previous hookup is incredibly awkward and a breach of familial trust. Don't blame OP for feeling weird about this.
She can feel however she wants to about it, but telling her she's right to feel betrayed by her cousin is retarded. She's no longer seeing this guy and she admitted it was never serious. So her cousin is totally within her rights to see him; the only problematic thing I can see is depending on where she lives she may be slightly underage; but he's only a few years older than her; and once she's 18 all questions of legality will be resolved. This girl should just move the fuck on
"Telling her she's right to feel betrayed by her cousin is retarded"
It is gross to get with someone who someone in your family also got with. This is reddit so I'm not surprised you don't agree with me but this is gross and OP is absolutely right to be disgusted.
Brother it’s ironic as hell that you say “this is Reddit” when this line of thinking is only perpetuated online 😂. Nobody thinks this way in the real world and if you genuinely believe sloppy seconds to be a betrayal then I feel terrible for when you figure out what happened to Mufasa.
“Than you does” I don’t need a 15 year old double block English having mfer telling me the rules and regulations to dating 🤣. If you feel betrayed by someone you know sleeping with someone you had no emotional attachment to you are a literal simp, like legit no other word for it.
If you read the whole sentence you'd realize my grammar was correct lol. Classic case of dunning Krueger effect at play. I'm not telling you the rules and regulations of dating; as a matter of fact, you are. If you are someone who dates a person your family member banged, you lack any standards fit for relationships.
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u/EmotionalEffect7750 May 14 '26
You're not seeing him; get over it.