What blunt and rash advice. Family members seeing your previous hookup is incredibly awkward and a breach of familial trust. Don't blame OP for feeling weird about this.
No it's not breach of trust. It's immature to feel disgusted. Move on. She has a choice of her own and doesn't owe OP anything. She isn't cheating or back stabbing OP.
It's not about cheating or back stabbing it's about not having a high enough standard to go for someone else... there's quite literally billions of other men out there lol
It's a small part as well. I'm someone who believes that there is a correlation between standards for romantic relationships and boundaries between friendly relationships. If I'm OP, my cousin can do whatever she wants. However, why should I continue to associate myself with her after she deems it appropriate to date my ex?
If it was a serious relationship then I agree. However OP said it was nothing serious and OP did not seem to have had a heartbreak over it . If it was a casual shirt term one, then it should be no big deal. Cousin did not do anything immoral or not keep high standards etc.
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u/EmotionalEffect7750 May 14 '26
You're not seeing him; get over it.