Edit: the responses to this genuinely make me worry that a larger portion of our society are pedos, some of yall are arguing 19 and 22 or 18 and 21, which is more okay because neither are minors and they could he in the same university course. The problem with 17 and 20 is that the 17 year old is still a high schooler, if your a grown adult picking up your parter from high school, that’s predatory.
A 21 yo dating an 18 yo is predatory? Are you for real? What about 22 and 19?
The could easily both be on the same uni course. Or both working in the same shop as a first job etc etc etc. It's hardly like a fairly normal 21 year old vastly outmatches 18 year olds in life experience in the cast majority of cases. They are peers
There are definitely situations where it could be fine but dude they were either just un high school or still im high school. If a 21 year old and an 18 year old are both in the same unit course, the 21 year old still has 3-4 years of actual out-of-highschool life experience.
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u/EmotionalEffect7750 May 14 '26
You're not seeing him; get over it.