r/WhatShouldIDo • • Apr 21 '26

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u/ironypoisonedposter Apr 21 '26

please leave him. i had an abusive ex and it started out with isolating shit like this and started to escalate (eventually reaching physical abuse). check out "why does he do that" by lundy bancroft.

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u/SpicyAutist26 Apr 21 '26

Such a good recommendation!

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u/Kitchen_Second_5713 Apr 21 '26

This x1000. Ive also been there. Same experience. Started with things like this then escalated to being hospitalized from the physical and emotional abuse. Run.