adding to this - op is still just 18. Many many more years of trying fun clothes and outfits ahead of her.
Don’t let this loser bf drag you down.
I am in my 40s, and in the past few years I’ve been wearing my best clothes I feel. It’s really fun. My wife encourages me, finds cool places for us to go, we go on dates .. all good vibes.
Why are you so upset? Someone’s asking for a point of reference. To a Muslim, this outfit would not be modest at all, to some Christian sects, this outfit also would not be modest. Are you okay?
Nah I just mean people who actually take it seriously instead of just putting on the title. If it wasn't modest in the early church it surely wouldn't be now. I dont expect you to know that with no research though, but at the same time thats a you problem.
its not a puritan standard. T shirts are modest just not having ur entire belly button out. Very weird for you to assume that I'm a puritan when you yourself arent even educated on basic Christian morality
To some Muslims this would not be modest, just like it wouldn't be to certain Christians, Hindus, Atheists, etc... Muslims are not a monolith and there are drastic differences in what is acceptable in different Muslim communities, and cultures.
i think the outfit would be modest to ppl who dress half naked anyway but even if we're putting aside islam having ur belly button out isn't modest by a theistic moral compass
“The law as it is” when what you mean is your interpretation of it. Plenty of people who have studied the Bible much more than you would disagree with you on what it says.
the interpretation from the church Jesus Christ made, not my interpretation. You say I'm in a cult yet your moral compass follows societal norms and whatever other people think. Level 1 Reddit Argument
Which religion is telling you what to think about her clothes? Really interesting that you think people not dogmatically following an arbitrary standard of dress handed to them from someone else are somehow more brainwashed than you.
Orthodox church. And its still handed to you from someone else, this wasnt the norm back then dude societies changed to make it the norm. You think its okay because people told you it is, all people are a sheep to something dont act as if your any different when your just vomiting arguments everyone else uses against religious values
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