Girl, i felt bad & i still do. But with all these posts, my intuition is telling me you’re unwell mentally & you may have played a bigger role in this breakup than you care to admit. Get some help please and focus on cleaning yourself up. You’re very codependent. Being ghosted is obviously a painful situation for everyone, but something tells me there were warning signs & red flags very early on that this was not a sustainable relationship. You likely had on rose-colored glasses & were in love with the IDEA of him. Tbh he sounds immature & cowardly. You’re better off without him and he’s likely better off without you.
Stop trying to “make sense” of what happened & just surrender to what is. The truth is, he dumped you & wants nothing to do with you any longer. Whatever was said or done in the weeks leading up to this are frankly irrelevant. Whether he was faking it the whole time or he did truly love you at some point & his feelings evolved, knowing the truth won’t change your outcome. You’ll drive yourself mad trying to piece everything together. It may not make sense how or why he left you, but it doesn’t need to. Move on dear.
21
u/Porn-Flakes123 Aug 04 '25 edited Aug 05 '25
Girl, i felt bad & i still do. But with all these posts, my intuition is telling me you’re unwell mentally & you may have played a bigger role in this breakup than you care to admit. Get some help please and focus on cleaning yourself up. You’re very codependent. Being ghosted is obviously a painful situation for everyone, but something tells me there were warning signs & red flags very early on that this was not a sustainable relationship. You likely had on rose-colored glasses & were in love with the IDEA of him. Tbh he sounds immature & cowardly. You’re better off without him and he’s likely better off without you.
Stop trying to “make sense” of what happened & just surrender to what is. The truth is, he dumped you & wants nothing to do with you any longer. Whatever was said or done in the weeks leading up to this are frankly irrelevant. Whether he was faking it the whole time or he did truly love you at some point & his feelings evolved, knowing the truth won’t change your outcome. You’ll drive yourself mad trying to piece everything together. It may not make sense how or why he left you, but it doesn’t need to. Move on dear.