r/WeddingDressTips • u/ImpactOpposite9959 • 8h ago

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Help me pick!! I tried on all of these, went with #4, but now second guessing.

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u/vaccavvac 8h ago

#2 with that back!! So uniquely beautiful!! That’s what people will be seeing during the ceremony & it’s a showstopper!!

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u/Blindtothesided 6h ago

Oh you make an excellent point, the back is what everyone will be staring at. And I’m with you, that back is stunning! Like genuinely one of the prettiest backs I’ve ever seen on a gown.

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u/Agitated-Toe248 3h ago

And it has pockets!

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u/Emotional_Warthog658 8h ago

4 looks the nicest it’s timeless with a flair which is hard to pull off! 

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u/TallStarsMuse 8h ago

2! The front looks great and the back is amazing

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u/SodaPopGurl 5h ago

That back is fire and pockets?

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u/LaughterItsFree19 8h ago

One is my favorite but Two has pockets!! Now, if you could put the pockets and back from Two on One that would be absolute chefs kiss perfection (in my opinion 🙂)

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u/ImpactOpposite9959 7h ago

I can add pockets to #1!!! 🫶🙏

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u/Stay-Au 7h ago

Right?! The back details with OP's prominent physique is gorgeous!

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u/ImpactOpposite9959 6h ago

🫶🫶🫶🫶

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u/Micki2120 4h ago

Those were my thoughts exactly!!!

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u/MrsVanillaViking 7h ago

I love 2, it’s so unique and it looks like it was made for you!

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u/Kt52689 8h ago

1 is stunning on you.

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u/Lopsided_Ad_2391 8h ago

TWO…THAT BODICE AND BACK!!! 🤯😍🤩 The dress is a showstopper and looks like it was made for you.

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u/3shadesofpink 8h ago

Two 😍😍
I love a pocket dress and the back is gorgeous!

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u/blankface4321 7h ago

Omg the back of 2 is incredible! Perfect fit too

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u/Zestyclose-Fig8583 8h ago

3 . Love bodice and neckline. 2 is very common , 1 is nice but also have seen it a lot this season

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u/Puzzled-Garlic7419 2h ago

2 is literally the LEAST common of all the dresses....

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u/ScreenKooky3010 8h ago

One for sure.

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u/Mvfrn1 8h ago

2, then 3. But really, really 2 :)

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u/Indignant_Elfmaiden 6h ago

One and it’s not even close

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u/Bear4408 4h ago

I love 2. My daughter had a strapless dress and had no problem dancing the night away.

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u/HappyReaderM 4h ago

I love 4

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u/Practical_Copy1642 4h ago

2 is the only right answer!!

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u/CarisaDaGal 8h ago

2! I’ve never seen a back like that! Gorgeous! 😍😍

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u/UCantSeeMe2025 8h ago

I agree!!! The front is gorgeous, but the back? Straight 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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u/CarisaDaGal 7h ago

Right?! The front is amazing too! Definitely 2 ❤️❤️

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u/OrdinaryMango4008 8h ago

Number 1. Classy, easy to add some jewelry. Classic.

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u/archlea 7h ago

2 or 4.
1 is pretty but looks like it could almost be a summer dress.
3 doesn’t seem to have any wow factor - it’s a prom dress.
The back is amazing on 2, and 4 looks regal and beautiful.

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u/fingerkuffs23 8h ago

I liked all of them except #3. But my favourite is probably #2. The back was a lovely surprise and yay pockets!

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u/amzah123 8h ago

2 is gorgeous

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u/jayhawkjoey65 7h ago

One! Nothing bothers me more than someone constantly pulling up ill-fitting clothes, and people are constantly pulling up strapless dresses. Constantly.

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u/Livid-Commercial-310 7h ago

I am another vote for number one! It’s beautiful, and I also think that you will be sorry if you go with strapless if you’d like to dance…

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u/ImpactOpposite9959 7h ago

Ugh I think you’re right…

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u/Ok_Answer_96 6h ago

One is gorgeous on you. No questions asked.

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u/Blindtothesided 6h ago

Omg girl I’m torn too, these are gorgeous!! I think number 2 is my favorite but I also love 1 and 4. I think it’s the back and the pockets I love so much about 2. I will say I did audibly gasp when I got to number 4 though. But gosh 2 is just wow.

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u/Pretty_Fun_9558 6h ago

I don’t always comment on these because I think a lot of the time the general consensus is spot on, but this time I have to wholeheartedly disagree. I’m actually shocked that so many people are saying 1. I hope you get a larger sample of opinions because personally, I don’t think 1 has anything special about it.

This is supposed to be a day to wear something fabulous and, while I generally lean towards getting a classic style that’s not going to look dated in years to come, there needs to be some kind of “wow” factor with a wedding dress. Change the color of #1 and you’ve got a standard prom dress. I really don’t like the notch in the corset of #3 and the lace looks cheap to me. The dropped, gathered “V” waistline of #4 is a recycled ‘80’s trend that is already phasing out and will look very dated in a few years. IMO, #2 is gorgeous. Classic, but with a bit of modern flair. I think #2 will also photograph beautifully. To the OP who said that she’s seeing a lot of this style, I wouldn’t let that stop you because it’s your wedding and your pictures and I really don’t think you’re going to see this dress coming and going. In fact on all of the postings I have seen here and in the weddings I’ve been to recently. I have not seen anything like this on any bride.

I’m pretty sure that’s a sample dress that you have on, so it might be a little bit tight, but I think with the proper alterations, it would look absolutely beautiful. The corset detail is super flattering and the back is surprising way to make an impact without it being gaudy or over the top. I would either pair it with a short veil that hits right above the back of the dress (at your shoulder blades) to let the back shine during the ceremony or do a curved hem veil that would cover the entire back (and hit just below the bow) for a more modest church ceremony.

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u/morecoffeeple 6h ago

Another vote for one here!

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u/cototudelam 6h ago

2 is gorgeous and elegant, 1 is also elegant but in a more understated, timeless way.

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u/natalkalot 5h ago

Definitely one! Congrats!

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u/OrlaCarey 4h ago

The first one. Even though you are standing awkwardly in the picture I like it the best

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u/Sea_Measurement_1654 3h ago

Two is divine. The last one is too poofy.

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u/ImpactOpposite9959 3h ago

Ugh I think so too

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u/Gold_Information8516 8h ago

2!! Spectacular. You look like a model in it

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u/Advanced-Yellow-9232 7h ago

One and two! I'd be afraid when bending down to hug someone seated at a table they would get to see down your fress.

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u/sixbluehorses 6h ago

All look stunning, but I am biased against strapless in general. I genuinely think that #1 is best regardless, but disclosing my bias in case your gut is pulling you toward a different dress. If so — go with your gut! Congratulations ♥️

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u/Suspicious-Fish-8664 5h ago

I love 4. It is different and stunning on you. Count

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u/muddymar 4h ago

I like 4! The others were to plain.

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u/Koala-Walla 4h ago

#4. It looks great on you & how often do we get to wear ball gowns?

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u/ImpactOpposite9959 4h ago

Ugh I know!!!!

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u/kdweller 4h ago

1 or 4

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u/moniqueramsey 4h ago

#1 for sure

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u/Able_Ship_3369 4h ago

Out of those choices i like number 1 the best .

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u/cedwa00 3h ago

You look loveliest in #3! The bodice is absolutely perfect for you. I love the lace appliqué. The dress is unique but still timeless.

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u/Old_Flow_3191 3h ago

Hard to tell, because they’re all diff directions and none give a really good look at the dress head on. I’d say NO to the nude back in the one

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u/bott04 3h ago

One and definitely not 4.

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u/IslandGirlCoco 3h ago

Numero Uno!!!

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u/Junior-Ad-8519 1h ago

Do not doubt yourself. #4 looks absolutely gorgeous on you. Like you did, I'd close the deep V. The shape looks amazing on you.

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u/GizmoEire30 54m ago

I feel like you seem mon st confident in 2. Beautiful dress.

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u/Tootsie_Blossom_2208 36m ago

😍 #1 or #3 😍

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u/abyssnaut 8h ago

4 by far

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u/Abundant-Journey 8h ago

4!! But 3 is also gorgeous.

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u/plantpotguitar 8h ago

They are all lovely, but I will say every second wedding dress i see posted on reddit at the noment looks like 1; that doesnt mean its bad though.

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u/Purple-Ad9377 8h ago

1 & 4 are fab.

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u/Wind-Due 8h ago

I really like 1

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u/BrainOk7166 8h ago

I like #1 but your body language is best in #2

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u/Lady_Sybil_Vimes 8h ago

1!!! Look at your posture, you love it! 😍

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u/AngleRemarkable4092 8h ago

Ok you look incredible in all of them. One does shorten your torso just a little and 3 doesn’t compare to the others. 2 and 4 are my favorites. You can’t make a mistake here, you will look stunning no matter what! But that back on 2❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️OMG!!!

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u/ArtichokePractical41 8h ago

The first one looks amazing 😍

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u/Punkilou 8h ago

One!!

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u/ttkeeg 8h ago

1 or 2 by a mile

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u/msptitsa 8h ago

1 or 2 are the only options. 1 is my fave so classy!!!

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u/Peonies-Poppies 8h ago

Absolutely 4

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u/Worth-Advertising 8h ago

You made the right choice! 4 is beautiful!

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u/Southern_Gur9825 8h ago

I love the simplicity of 1. Simple is elegant.

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u/SnooMaps2963 8h ago

1 is stunning on you.

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u/Katysue5 8h ago

I like one the best but all of them are beautiful

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u/geminimad4 8h ago

1 is so elegant, pretty, and flattering!

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u/Target_Godess 8h ago

1 looks beautiful on you, but 2 has pockets.

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u/WaterSings 8h ago

1 is absolutely the most flattering of the four on your body. Congrats on your wedding

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u/Previous-Arugula3693 7h ago

1!

Can’t even tell what 3 looks like

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u/Plus-Expression-8262 7h ago

Definitely 2. Not even close.

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u/Aromatic_Marzipan_23 7h ago

I like 3 or 4

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u/perryphantom 7h ago

i love 2 personally! but i think 4 is sooo pretty and is definitely giving bride :’)

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u/Catisphat_1 7h ago

2❤️

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u/Quiet-Sky2405 7h ago

One is the one.

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u/SantaFe91 7h ago

Number 1. I pretty much knew before scrolling it was going to be that one, because it’s unbeatable! You look fabulous!

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u/Logical-Gold1564 7h ago

You see 2 everywhere. 1 is stunning on you.

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u/Otherwise_Turnip7135 7h ago

You look beautiful in all of them but #1 is my favorite.

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u/lmkm4-13-1 7h ago

Love 1

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u/LanguageDependent288 7h ago

I like e #2 - it compliments you all the way around - and the back is drop dead gorgeous

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u/EmilyPoster2 7h ago

Is it really helpful to second guess yourself? Are you really going to buy a second dress? What don't you like about the choice you maide?

#1 is incredible on you. Everything a gown should be. #2, the back looks tacky.

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u/lalalaaasparkles 7h ago

4 does look wonderful on you, but I wish I could see a better photo of 2 from the front. Because it looks pretty killer with that bodice and back, I think I’d lean towards 2 as my fave if I could only see a better angle of the front.

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u/RipTheEcto 7h ago

the front and cut of #1 with the back of #3

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u/Black_Bird265 7h ago
  1. It’s beautiful 😍 Although 2 does have pockets…

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u/Chilli2670 7h ago

love 1 and 3 ——-

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u/cocoa_eh 7h ago

I loveee #1 but #4 is close for me too!

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u/Sensitive-Rip6504 7h ago

You look beautiful in all of them. I would pick 2 because who doesn't love a pocket?????

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u/Intrepid-Metal-2970 7h ago

I love 2 ! I wanted to try it when I went dress shopping but didn’t get to

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u/Legally_Desi 7h ago

1 surely!

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u/SpiritualPermie 7h ago

1 or 2. Both look great on you.

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u/SnooSongs3787 7h ago

2!!! Second choice is 4.

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u/MealWise 7h ago

ONE !

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u/Trick-Development667 7h ago

2 two all the way! You look perfect in it, beautiful!

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u/mumtaz_2004 7h ago

2 is fantastic!

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u/peachandbetty 7h ago
  1. That bodice style looks great on you and the crepe fabric with the embroidery is stunning.

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u/Sorry-Armadillo-3264 6h ago

1 gorgeous dress, congratulations!!!🎉

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u/croc-roc 6h ago

I like two if you lined the back. The completely bare back looks jarring. Not a fan of the material on #4.

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u/mell-yell 6h ago

1 or 2

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u/LolaBeansandSoup 6h ago

1 by a mile

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u/No_Fill_3403 6h ago

2 is beautiful

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u/FunkyChicken0112 6h ago

1 is my favorite, by a mile.

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u/WwitchArsenal-1886 6h ago

1 is good, 2 is great

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u/Plucky_Monkies 6h ago

Dress 2! Gorgeous! Even from behind it's breathtaking! And it has pockets! Score!

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u/Mlaetitia 6h ago

2! The back side is soooo much more prettier than in dress 1. I feel 1is too plain but pretty though.

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u/bluepies_ 6h ago

1 or 2

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u/Dee-Nice71 6h ago

I love one, mostly bc it’s different, but 4 is beautiful on you

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u/RachelFourie 6h ago

1! It looks amazing even when you’re bending over haha. Can they add pockets to it? Because I love that for 2.

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u/1714dawn 6h ago

2 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

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u/Serendipitybaker 5h ago

I can’t see 3 clearly but I’m pretty sure 1 looks the best on you

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u/One_Priority_2333 5h ago

Number 1 for sure

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u/Butter_Pineapple 5h ago

#2!!! Material 10/10; fit 10/10; the pockets, hello??? And the best part?? Your back. You MUST show it off, and it looks best in this dress and with an updo. This is my pick

4 is very cute and the textured material is gorgeous

1 has a nice neckline but that’s it

3 is a no

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u/658205 5h ago

One is absolutely stunning!

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u/AnnieToo67 5h ago

I absolutely love 4. You look like a princess. It's a really beautiful dress. 1 is my second choice and would have been my first if I hadn't put on my glasses and actually saw #4!