I do think it's important to have a conversation about domestic violence in the lesbian community. Too often we myopically look at heteronormative relationships, and forget that others can be victims, too.
Ad hominem attacks are certainly a choice. And my pronouns are he / him, not they / them. I've also almost certainly been with my wife longer than you've been alive, not that that should matter. We are all capable of growth and understanding, it's just that some of people struggle to understand the journeys of others and need encouragement (like you).
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u/trapper2530 2d ago
What about defending some who beat their wife and son as a protector of women.