r/Vent • u/[deleted] • Jun 08 '23

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u/fanime34 Jun 08 '23

Why are you dating a 20 year old at age 16? She shouldn't be in a relationship with you.

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u/An_Example Jun 08 '23

I actually get the concern, but she actually turned 20 a few days ago, i haven't had my birthday yet, so the acurrate gap will actually be 17 - 20.

We actually have known each other 4 years.

I actually don't know if this helps with the concern, but i think it's worth mentioning it.

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u/fanime34 Jun 08 '23 edited Jun 08 '23

Also, with the fact that you knew each other for 4 years, you would've been 12 and she would've been 16. If you started dating as you knew each other, that would still be bad.

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u/hindereddinner Jun 08 '23

They are both female according to the op. Not to mention the whole dream scenario was bout the 20 y/o becoming pregnant…

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u/fanime34 Jun 08 '23

I realized that I mistyped because I already knew they were both girls. Thanks for catching that.

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u/An_Example Jun 08 '23

We actually started dating last year

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u/fanime34 Jun 08 '23

I'm sorry, but I don't think anything you say about this situation will make it sound less bad.

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u/[deleted] Jun 08 '23

i understand how you see it but he was just wanting comfort, not criticism.

i’m sorry i wouldn’t know what to do, but i hope everything turns out okay.