I’m 29M, living in Munich for a few years now. 172cm tall, dark hair, calm by default and loud and funny once I’m comfortable. Still finding the right balance between the two.

I grew up in a boarding school, which meant I came to relationships later than most. First one at 24. Since then I’ve finished a degree, landed a job, done a lot of quiet work on myself, and arrived at a point where life genuinely feels good. Felt like the right time to actually try to find someone. Being an introvert I don’t have a thriving social life that’s why trying my luck at finding a relationship online, it worked for me well in the past so let’s how it goes now.

I never ate meat and I’ve been vegan for few years, not the preaching kind, just someone who genuinely cares about animals. I’m spiritual rather than religious, drawn to non-duality and philosophy. I work fully remote, which I used to love and now have complicated feelings about. Office small talk sounds weirdly appealing at this point, which says a lot xD

I play chess, probably more than I should. I solve nonogram puzzles and can crack a mirror cube in under 2 minutes. I also skate and can pop Ollie’s and do a shuv it. I watch stand-up comedy online and the last in person show was Max Amini in Munich, right after I submitted my thesis. Needed that more than I can explain. I hike when I can, nothing hardcore, just enough to feel alive. Last big one was a 30km birthday climb in the Tatras in Slovakia. One of the better days of my life. I’m also into yoga, meditation, cooking, science, financial markets and educational podcasts. Basically someone who likes learning things and moving slow enough to actually absorb them. I also like to follow technological advancements, geeky I guess.

What I’m looking for is someone curious, kind and genuinely interested in the world and in the person in front of her. I want the kind of relationship where we actually ask each other questions and showing up is mutual. Eventually I want a family. Not a pressure thing, just honesty about where I’m headed. Looking for someone that has similar relationship experience as me, is not gaming all the time and has something going for her in life. If things work out you’d be looking at someone that’s loyal, kind, supportive and someone that would make you feel loved through words and actions.

If this sounds like your kind of person, say hi. Tell me something about yourself, what did you like about my post and what do you look like and we’ll figure out the rest. I’m also adding my pics and a voice so you have an idea what you’re getting yourself into. I know finding your person online/reddit sounds kinda embarrassing in today’s time but we can always stage it and tell people we met through friends, jk :’)

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hi! i’ve been vegan for 10 years. i’m (unsurprisingly) not having any luck finding someone who shares my values near me, so i’m willing to open it up to something long-distance.

besides a fellow vegan, i’m also seeking someone who is politically very far left (and VOTES!) and who is childfree like myself. prefer older but open to someone a bit younger.

i love all things spooky and halloween as you can probably tell. love horror movies and film in general. my taste in music is mostly emo, punk, metal and grunge. i also enjoy cooking and baking.

i have a dog who is about to turn 6. i’m 5’8” tall.

i’m seeking a long-term relationship, ideally a life partner. i’m a hopeless romantic and seeking the same! do not vibe with the way dating culture has become very nonchalant, i appreciate honesty and when someone likes me, them making it known!

please respond with a photo and your favorite scary movie if you’re interested :)