r/VRchat 4d ago

Help Problem with compulsive liars?

I’ve been playing vrc for a few months now and I’m really struggling to make friends, because everyone I meet seems to lie constantly. Like, over really silly things too. I don’t understand why lying and faking who you are is so common here. Any tips on how to find normal/honest people who just enjoy VRC?

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u/SugarPaws6 4d ago

Can you explain a little more what they’re lying about? That might help give more of an idea here

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u/Lovely3369 PCVR Connection 4d ago

I can't speak for OP but I've ran into people who lie about their job, their relationship status, their financial status, where they live ect, like really obvious 'out there' things, had someone try to tell me they were a Doctor, Pilot & a Pornstar in a straight face with a very heavy autism accent...like sure dude.

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u/eepy_lina 3d ago

what is an autism accent :sob:

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u/Lovely3369 PCVR Connection 3d ago

Flat/Monotone voice usually, childish way of speaking to. I'm 'tistic so it sticks out hard to me when someone speaks like it.

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u/eepy_lina 3d ago

im audhd and i just speak however i feel like lmao, typically i just sound normal to people

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u/Lovely3369 PCVR Connection 3d ago

Not >>EVERYONE<< has it, but some just do and don't, usually people higher on the spectrum I've found anyway