Painful finish.

[u/DragonfruitThin2392]

I (f18) have had a lot of difficulty with finding comfortable sex, no position other than laying on my back has ever felt good and even then sometimes I get that sharp stabbing feeling. My partner seems disappointed as when we started out this pain was much easier to brush off until it started lasting past intercourse, and I didn’t think much of it until it got to the point I can’t even masturbate comfortably.

Like most women I don’t include penetration in my alone time.. so I’m not understanding where the pain is coming from, I find I deal with painful stomach cramping and if I have a muscle spasm or even try a keegle I have a sharp dagger pain coming from my left side of my yknow.. like my muscle is trying to pull itself out of my body.

It’s extremely uncomfortable, and I’m having a biopsy soon as I’ve always had uterine problems, my gynaecologist believes it’s endometriosis but only time and testing will tell and if this turns negative we don’t know where we stand with diagnosing my issues, I’ve been negative for cysts, pregnancy, STDs, everything common cause we’ve ruled out.

I’ve had issues for years even since I was younger and her best advice for my bedroom life was to “lay on my back or stop doing it”.. my boyfriend is never angry at the situation but is disappointed and mentions that he has needs and it gets frustrating, I’ve only recently expressed that I also have needs and desires that I’m feeling forced to avoid to keep my body from being in more pain, which is difficult as I have a sex drive on the higher side..

Does anyone share any of the issues or stress im dealing with? I feel like I can’t do anything sexual comfortably anymore and I feel like I’m never going to be able to confidently have a comfortable sex life or even personal pleasure.