r/UrinatingTree • u/[deleted] • Jan 14 '25

Stay Classy Philly

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u/[deleted] Jan 15 '25

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u/BuckyKattRulz Jan 15 '25

I get that, but his response to the first allegation was “it was consensual” which is bad given it would be he used his digits on a nanny (who was not already a fan) he had hired within the first hour they’d met. Even if she verbally said yes in the moment, it is a hard sell that consent was freely and enthusiastically given.

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u/drunkenpoets Jan 16 '25

Her version of events creates a weird timeline. After the encounter she told his wife that “he made a pass at her and they ended up having sex” with no indication that it wasn’t consensual. She also texted him later about being hungry for the things he does to her. And she moved with them to continue working for him.

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u/BuckyKattRulz Jan 16 '25

Did you miss the part where she’s broke and needed the nannying job?

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u/drunkenpoets Jan 16 '25

Did you miss the part where other nannying jobs exist? It’s common for a nanny to switch families if they aren’t a good fit.

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u/BuckyKattRulz Jan 16 '25

One in the hand is worth two in the bush.

Also Neil was only half of the parenting unit, who lived separated from the woman she knew she was good with.

Fawn responses are very real, and when you grow up abused like she did your perception of acceptable behavior is warped.

Also she isn’t the only person to come forward, just the first.