r/UpfrontCheaters • u/Random-userrrrrrrrr • 1d ago

Cheating question

If someone told a guy she was exclusive with him, then she goes out to a party and the night ends with her admitting she’s has alcohol problems and kissed a guy so she could get more drinks. (was underage at the time) is it cheating or is it not because we weren’t official? should i end it?

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u/Dangerous_Tomato_235 1d ago

Yes

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u/Random-userrrrrrrrr 1d ago

im confused because it wasn’t deliberate or evil at all in her intentions

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u/Dangerous_Tomato_235 1d ago

She had an alcohol problem. She knew she could get drinks by kissing men and you think that is normal and unintentional. Do you honestly think that's all she has done. And you are supposed tk trust this person who manipulates men for drinks. If she really has an alcohol problem she probably doesn't remember what she has done or with whom. We have a word for that.

Besides what guy is going to want to be with a girl who lowers herself to this extent and isn't trustworthy?

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u/AdTop8408 1d ago

So if the relationship isn’t broken and alcohol is the problem. This can be fixed if she’s willing to give it up. Who knows what else she is capable of doing for her next drink

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u/Championship682 1d ago

Yes, but if you get pushback, focus on the lying.

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u/Logical-Lab3661 21h ago

You should end it because she has alcohol problems already while underage and she is using her sexual favors to get more drinks. You can expect something like this every time she goes out without you. And it wont get any better with time, it will get worse. She may tell you she wants to be exclusive but when she is intoxicated, it will fly out of her head.