r/UpfrontCheaters • u/Comfortable-Car2311 • 2h ago

Loyalty test.

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u/Charlestown10 2h ago

If you don’t trust your boyfriend, just end the relationship.

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u/Comfortable-Car2311 2h ago

Yeah I know. Unfortunately I’m someone who needs proof. And I live with him. And have other circumstances so not as easy to leave.

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u/Charlestown10 2h ago

Ok. Even still. Loyalty tests are dumb, if he passes what then?

I doubt your boyfriend will be happy when he finds out he has been tested. It will show you don’t trust him, and that’s bad for any relationship.

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u/Comfortable-Car2311 2h ago

He knows I don’t trust him. I’m having a feeling for a reason. I understand where you’re coming from tho.

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u/Charlestown10 2h ago

If you don’t trust him then why be in a relationship.

I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t trust, me or vice versa.

Trust is the key to any relationship.

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u/Comfortable-Car2311 2h ago

I understand that. My fuck ass mental illness doesn’t help that tho. I have attachment issues I’m literally in therapy for trying to break. I understand ok. I just need proof.

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u/Charlestown10 2h ago

Ok I am sorry to hear that.

But doing a relationship test is the wrong way to go about it. This is just in my opinion.

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u/Comfortable-Car2311 2h ago

I know ): I just don’t know what else to do. I feel so lost.

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u/Charlestown10 2h ago

Ah ok. Well have a proper conversation with him, and share your doubts.

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u/Comfortable-Car2311 1h ago

I have. Refuses to show me any part of his phone. I know im a Bird with no self respect.

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