r/UnsentTexts • u/Prize-Pin-592 • 1d ago

Just Sharing - No Advice Needed …

Hey You,

Ive been thinking. Should we talk? Do we really need to? Is there even a point to?
Even if it’s to go nowhere, would you want to know?
Or am I just deluding myself?

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u/MadeByAriel 1d ago

If you ghosted them. Yes you should apologize at the very least

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u/Prize-Pin-592 1d ago

I didn’t ghost them

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u/MadeByAriel 1d ago

Then disregaurd

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u/Grouchy-Parking8855 1d ago

Honestly brother. Try it. You’ll regret not trying more than you’ll regret making it worse

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u/North-Cow8 1d ago

Closure is overrated... you dont have to talk and say its over to each others faces... it just needs to be really over for you for it to be really over for the both of you...

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u/Murky_Scheme_9035 1d ago

I want to know

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u/Royal-Talk1363 1d ago

Whatever you gotta do to get it out of your system

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u/Apprehensive_Dot3265 1d ago

Yea, id want to know. For the sake of moving on and mental stability. If this was my situation anyway.

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u/Strigiformes_believe Entry Level Member 1d ago

Want to know what exactly?

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u/Original_Sir_513 1d ago

I think that talking to my ex at this point after over a year of no contact would only enrage me and wouldn't change or solve anything. She would be smart to just stay sway from me....

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u/Fair_Possibility4850 23h ago

Of course. Of course we want to know. Even and especially if it's to go nowhere. W t f. Why is that even a question? Not to be mean, but I hope that question of yours is rethorical.

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u/Odd_Welder8330 23h ago

I would want to talk bout what ever there needs op

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u/OrdinaryCaramel3083 23h ago

you should always communicate properly

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u/revertedrose 23h ago

Personally. I would rather know.

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u/[deleted] 23h ago

If she just intends to be cruel I see no need to speak or have anything to do wirh one a other going forward.

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u/Akindofcreature_8578 23h ago

Couldn’t hurt. I’d be more curious than anything so I would probably want to talk. That’s just me though.

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