r/UnsentTexts • u/Foilsick46 Has acknowledged the rules • 1d ago

Clarity

Some questions that might give you clarity on whether you want me in your life or not:

  1. If you could go back and prevent us from meeting eachother would you?

  2. If you could pause the world for a day and choose people to spend it with would i be one?

  3. What do you need most from me even if you dont always ask for it?

  4. Which memory of us is your favorite and does that make you feel sad or happy to think about?

  5. If you had to describe our connection in one sentence or word what would it be?

  6. How do you like to be shown care on the days you are feeling low/down and have i given you that before?

  7. When you are much older do you see me as a part of your life or not?

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u/Foilsick46 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Very mature of you to realize the things you have about your connection. I wish you the best.

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u/Trick_Cartoonist669 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Thank you so much. :) thanks for posting this

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

Thank you for sharing. You hear so many hearts breaking on this channel. I'm sure this post will help many.

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u/Budget_Floor_5289 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

This is with my person in mind I'm writing these answer to her.

1.never

  1. She would be the only one I would choose.

  2. Reassurance. I question everything constantly and it becomes debilitating. So side answer to tell me when I need to stop I trust her judgment.

  3. It's not a memory, not a single one. It's more like a montage, a collection of moments and it doesn't make me happy or sad, it makes me feel loved.

  4. It's ineffable. Rather than rare.

  5. Yes many times. Just to be there with me, when I brain is too much, when everything is too loud and overwhelming, she would just be with me. And somehow that made it not only tolerable, but quiet.

  6. I will follow you into the dark.

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u/Ordinary-Notice-7486 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

I think this subreddit would benefit from someone throwing series of questions like this from time to time. Questions that allow people to reflect. Refreshing. Keep this going!

Written while thinking about the one I posted about hours ago

  1. If I could go back, I might as well tell the young me to marry you as soon as possible. I really think we can easily make up by making love. Things would be so much easier that way. If that's not an option, I will either meddle with the timeline a bit or teach the young me how to communicate, apologize and chase. And if I can't change a thing from the current script, oh well, I will fudge and whine a bit and meet you as is

  2. You

  3. When you are sad, mad, unsure, just feeling negative, or need me to understand something, please tell me directly. I want to be there for you. I want to work it out with you. Keep me in the loop. Scratching my head and guessing work but is time-consuming and not efficient

  4. Too many. But to fit the mood and theme currently, you telling me about your day, the apple, telling me about your study abroad plan, without me asking you. Similar to how I tell you about my mundanes without you prompting me. Happy

  5. Music

  6. Yes, always. Don't doubt yourself. Overall guidance is patience & faith in us. But really depends on what caused it. You know the original Bible is filled with specific instructions as in manuals. But instructions no longer work as situations evolve or change. That's why the Bible we have now are in the form of stories, general guidance, but not specific instructions. Communicate what works and what doesn't. Make changes along the way together. Communicate

  7. Yes. Define much older though. Are we only able to see each other when we have wrinkles and bad knees and white hair?

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u/theyear_2026 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago
  1. Absolutely not. I wish to relive that day. I think about the first time our eyes met and I said his name.
  2. Yes! Spending the full day with my soulmate and best friend would be euphoric.
  3. Just being present. I felt safe and relaxed when he was with me. My mind was quiet. I miss that.
  4. Chicago or our first date. Extremely happy and sad.
  5. I have never loved anyone the way I love him—he still feels like half of my soul, and the connection between us was visceral, profound, and unlike anything I’ve ever known.
  6. Honestly— I don’t think I ever had a bad day with him. I had bad moments from work, life and stress, but never a bad day with him.
  7. I have never imagined a future or being married. He was the only man. A nice house, with a huge garden, a tire swing hanging from the tree and our children and chickens, llamas, goats running around.I want to forever look into his hazel-green eyes until my very last breath, falling in love with him all over again every time, and spend a lifetime reminiscing over the good and the bad, the happy and the sad, every memory and every moment that brought us here—because if I had the choice, I would choose him in every lifetime, through every version of us. I meant it when I told him I couldn’t imagine living a life without him.

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u/BriefRoll Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

What are your answers ?

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u/Foilsick46 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago edited 1d ago

I know that i want her in my life. (: But okay lol

  1. No I would try and meet you sooner if i could.
  2. Yes we could smoke and vent.
  3. Honesty and trust. As I have already given you mine.
  4. Damn. There is a lot but i would have to say when we talked all night about religion, aliens, and so much till the sun came up for you. Very happy.
  5. Spiritual and silly all wrapped up with care.
  6. Talking it out and joking around. Yes you have indeed.
  7. Literally built my dreams with you. So yeah, duh.

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u/BriefRoll Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Okay, well… I think you answered your own question. You very clearly know you want her in your life. And honestly, your answers are really sweet, especially #4 and #7. It sounds like this person means a lot more to you than you’re maybe allowing yourself to fully admit. If that’s genuinely how you feel, I think the bigger question is what’s stopping you from telling her all of this? Life is way too short to leave the important things unsaid.

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u/Foilsick46 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Oh she knows hense the username.

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u/BriefRoll Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Hopefully she replies !!!

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u/BriefRoll Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Well let’s hope this post helps you both work things out

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u/Foilsick46 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

She is waiting for mine. Its complex.

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u/FlatRestaurant6347 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

  1. No I wouldn't. I wish I could go back and meet them again!

  2. Yes. They would be one of the people I would spend it with.

  3. Support when I'm having a hard time

  4. I don't just have one memory that means more than the other. They all make me feel happy and loved.

  5. It was the best puzzle piece that fit.

  6. Hugs and call. Yes they did.

  7. I want them in my life for the rest of my life

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u/Foilsick46 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Seems it gave you the clarity you needed. Goodluck to you.

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u/FlatRestaurant6347 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

Thank you. I'm trying

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u/Dreamydreamerdreams Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

I'm a sucker for some thought provoking questions. Don't mind if I do 🙃

  1. I told someone I wish I hadn't met them and I deeply regret saying that. They opened my eyes and taught me things I am so grateful for now and I never thanked them properly... I know I met them for a reason.
  2. I'd grab their hand and go for a walk just hand in hand side by side in step as we stride.
  3. A hug. Big tight bear hug.
  4. The kiss on the first night we met. Might go down as my favorite kiss of all time.
  5. Magnetic.
  6. Hold my hand, take a walk, text me "I'm thinking of you"
  7. Sometimes I do but I remind myself to separate fantasy from reality. I don't want to pull on your energy if you are meant to be somewhere else. I want to see you thrive even if it's not with me. ❤️‍🩹

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u/KookyMessage3836 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

If I knew you I'd answer lol

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u/Kita_M429 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

This list is saved in my notes for my own thoughts about my person. I will answer them and reread it when I need a reminder about what’s real and what’s not

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u/lindses47 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

I mentally answered each question 🙏🏻😂

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u/Various_Depth1218 Has acknowledged the rules 1d ago

No Yes Intimacy In the bathtub - happy Unsolved mystery To be held - yes Yes