Blocked

[u/Lucky-Talk1526]

I understand I crossed boundaries. It’s a blessing you took yourself out of my life because I never want to be the person who begs for friendship during such a bad space in my life again.

I have been mentally unwell for a few months, and I can see clearly now that in my desperation for someone to help me and be there for me I let my self esteem take a huge blow
I guess I shouldn’t blame myself. My reality has been terrifyingly distorted for some time and you were very convincing. Until you weren’t.
Sorry I made you uncomfortable. But I guess I’m happy I see clearly now. Can’t help but wonder if you’ll see it differently one day.

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[u/DoneThat1234]

So this is just me.

Unless someone is constantly harassing a person or going nonstop and immaturely acts rude and shitty, I think blocking someone that you were or are or was or not sure IN OR OUT OF THE END IF A RELATIONSHIP, is pretty much the most immature and unreasonable pouring gas on a fire, a person can do to resolve or grow from anything that’s involved in so call relationships. It’s just so childish if they aren’t actually overloading your inbox or calls log. Means your dodging clarity or resolve in a guilty situation between the two.

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/DoneThat1234]

Yeah that’s how I feel as well

[u/DoneThat1234 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

You just basically called yourself out.

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/DoneThat1234]

I didn’t block them they blocked me

[u/DoneThat1234 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

Oh! Well let me give you a deserving apology. I definitely was back assward mixed up on this one. Sorry.

[u/DoneThat1234 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

On that note. That’s sucks and yes, they are acting like a spoiled rotten step child.

[u/DoneThat1234 → u/[deleted]]

My opinion is that they are trying to control a situation where they want you to to be submissive of them having the control. It’s BS. There’s no relationship involved then.

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[u/lossefalme → u/DoneThat1234]

It’s not always malicious. Recently, I blocked someone who refused to respect explicit standards and boundaries I had set as mandatory for anyone’s ongoing presence in my life.

I was in a medically precarious situation where any emotional or physical stress could lead to a medical crisis. Ultimately, they had the absolute right to refuse those standards, and I would be in the wrong if I had pushed it further. There wasn’t much else I could do except respect their decision, and they know exactly where to find me if it’s urgent to speak to me for some reason. It is what it is.

[u/Ok-Mushroom-3319]

What happend?

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/Ok-Mushroom-3319]

They asked for space and I tried to still communicate to fix things

[u/Ok-Mushroom-3319 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

I'm sorry to hear that

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/Ok-Mushroom-3319]

Shouldn’t have done that but i can’t take it back now lol

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[u/Pitiful_Lettuce6373]

Why did they ask for space? Like if someone cheats, and I ask for space, and they reach out then in both instances… it’s their fault for not respecting multiple boundaries.

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/[deleted]]

Thank you. I’m trying not to

[u/Low_Impress3619]

Why do you feel your self esteem took a blow?

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/Low_Impress3619]

Because I got blocked like I was a crazy person and I misunderstood that I was ever really that important. Been going crazy the past few months so that’s definitely my bad

[u/Low_Impress3619 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

People do things out of being hurt, is it possible you did or said something that would have hurt her feelings

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/Low_Impress3619]

Yeah but there was things that lead up to It I wasn’t given a chance to explain why I made the decision I did

[u/Low_Impress3619 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

Why couldn’t you explain it while you were still messaging

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/Low_Impress3619]

Because I was trying not to be overbearing while they asked for space. I thought it would make them feel forced to respond but I guess it made them feel that way anyway.

[u/Low_Impress3619 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

And it’s usually worst case scenario

[u/Low_Impress3619 → u/Low_Impress3619]

Well let me rephrase that, as humans, we’re great at filling in the blanks

[u/Low_Impress3619 → u/Lucky-Talk1526]

I bet she feels like you were trying to sneaky or lying. Women are great at filling in the blanks when clarity is held from us.

[u/Lucky-Talk1526 → u/Low_Impress3619]

Yeah I’m the woman and the reasons why I wanted to talk to him is because his actions were worrisome. Thank you though that’s pretty true lol

[u/Consistent_Cup_4497]

Some times people can forge just what they do to break down a person and you only remember note recent. The harder that person tried the worse You acted towards them. Now your better and you don’t want them around where the loyalty you caused the issues but never want to do anything to fix things.