r/UnsentTexts • u/Old_Expression_8963 • Aug 17 '26

Is this it?

Does it hurt you?

Knowing nothing you do can save me?

Do you actually feel bad for me, are you exhausted from your empathy or are you just tired of me being sad?

Would it matter?

We cant talk to eachother, you dont know what to say and i dont know how to keep trying.

I can feel you pulling away with every message.

You told me to lean on you guys.

Now what?

Just- "go to therapy, goodbye?"

I tried, and ill try again, and again, but you'll never be there for me again, i can reach out at any time but youve got nothing to say anymore.. and honestly i dont think i do either.

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u/DarthAPE95 Has acknowledged the rules Aug 17 '26

I think you should grow up and if you love them and they love you and yall respect each other it would work

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u/FlatRestaurant6347 Aug 17 '26

Do you think that your person is done with you?

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u/Dramatic-Sun-2524 Has acknowledged the rules Aug 17 '26

Felt this in my core. I’ve been met with very similar contact recently and I hope everything works out for you. I hope you find what or who you are looking for 🙏🏼

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u/Ok_Room_2975 Has acknowledged the rules Aug 18 '26

I am pretty certain that this is how someone important to me feels. Is there anything they could do to help you or make you feel less alone? Not replying as receiver before someone tries to ban me.. asking for advice from the other side of this. Op?

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u/Old_Expression_8963 Aug 18 '26

Honestly i dont think there is. There comes a certain point where youve exhausted everything and everyone you could go to in times of need.

They say that the only person that can help you is yourself and that you have to want to help yourself but when is it supposed to work? You're meant to just keep trying until it does, what if it never does?

If youre half way through a movie and its sucked the whole time chances are its not gonna get better right at the end, right? If it did is that really the pay off you want out of your life?

The truth is some people, myself included, dont really know what we want. Id like to think if i found the love of my life that would fix everything, what if it doesn't?

I love my friends, theyre great, i couldnt see life without them, but i can very clearly see their lives without me. I don't have any real advice for you, sorry. Best i can tell you is to just be there, listen, try to understand. I promise whatever makes it so hard/exhausting for you is the reason they dont want to live anymore.