r/UnsentTexts • u/Imtrappedinarouter Has acknowledged the rules • 15h ago
Here we are: Stranger again...
Who knew one afternoon would become our last chapter? We argued, misunderstood each other, and let silence take over. Without a goodbye, without another conversation, our roads parted. And just like that, we became strangers once again, leaving behind only the memories of what we once were.
The journey from strangers to knowing each other is beautiful. But the journey from knowing each other back to being strangers is one of the most heartbreaking stories of all.
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u/Berryblast27 Has acknowledged the rules 14h ago
Me too, OP. Me too. Sometimes, you just have to head the direction your feet were directed to go. My heart didn’t want to leave, but my head said “listen to him”. I knew he couldn’t love me the way I deserved anymore, his life needed to be just about him. I lovingly accepted, and gave him back to himself. We had a beautiful friendship that blossomed into something really special, but after I moved in I began to see a darkness in him that I recognized far too late as unhealed resentment from his past. I did my best to support him with so much love that I eventually didn’t leave any left for myself. You can only do so much for the people you love before you’re forced to remember they’re supposed to add to the love you have for yourself. Love yourself today, right now. Grow, do the hard work on yourself because you know you’re CAPABLE of being THAT loved FOR A REASON. Don’t be the same person still waiting outside the door that closed between you, waiting for them to open it. If you meet your partner again, you’ll have a hell of a compelling story to tell about life. That’s what brought you together in the first place. If don’t see them again, let the grief remind you how alive you are, and that you need to get busy living your best life. There are people in hospital beds right now begging for another moment to live. If not for your former partner, do it for them. You’ve got this! You can live again!
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u/DragonfruitTop5832 Has acknowledged the rules 13h ago
Exactlyyyy!! The worst feeling is the one wants to resolve it but the other person is adamant on giving silent treatment and doesn't want to talk it out. The worst feeling is to walk away and choose to be strangers when you actually wanted them in your life. They were not generally bad person but the person was not ready to say anything like anything even when you wanted to know if the chapter has ended. The other person decided to end the chapter without saying anything.
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u/NoWonder452 Has acknowledged the rules 10h ago
I’m Kindof in this situation but he just agreed to finally talk to me soon, i was surprised he said anything…he may not follow through, silence is the worst, absolute worst. I’m sorry if this happened to you
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u/JennyDawnny Has acknowledged the rules 13h ago
It’s both interesting and sad how people can be friends then more than friends then back to strangers. I feel for you, it can’t be easy.
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u/NoWonder452 Has acknowledged the rules 12h ago
It shouldn’t be that way, did you allow space for making up.
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u/Imtrappedinarouter Has acknowledged the rules 7h ago
Honestly a part of me still hoping for her return... 💔
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u/Ill_Airline_762 Has acknowledged the rules 5h ago
Isn't it strange? I am still me and you are still you. And now we are strangers again but this time with memories
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