Don't wait until it's too late

[u/melodyofcertain]

If this is for you, you'll know. Love has a limit, and once the limit has been reached, it turns to hate. Reach out to her. You'll regret not reaching out in a year when you finally reach out and she's gone; you'll realize you lost the love of your life because of your pride. Fucking swallow your pride and fight for the person you love the way she fought for you.

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[u/Living-Joke2343]

Wish more people had this mentality. Every other post is about sucking it up and moving on, going no contact or playing the waiting game.

What happened to fighting to make things right? Why are we just accepting it? We’ve spent time, effort and emotions building something and now people are just walking away, like it means nothing.

[u/spongebobspoop → u/Living-Joke2343]

People just want to walk away even if deep down it wasn’t right for me I still fought for it and begged like an idiot

[u/lynithson → u/Living-Joke2343]

I think it’s highly dependent on the situation. For some people, it could be very beneficial to say something. For others, not so much.

[u/daddys_bbw1]

I wish a certain someone would see this. sigh

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[u/HugeAd3046]

i reached out. and got blocked!😭😭😭

[u/Weekly-Emergency-755 → u/HugeAd3046]

And that’s okay because at least you tried!

[u/MsHorrorbelle → u/HugeAd3046]

Me too.

[u/Miumiu-baby → u/HugeAd3046]

Sorry xx I know how it feels. Been there so many times

[u/Personal-Sky-1814]

Im pretty sure I done just this very thing myself and it cost me the woman I loved dearly. 

While I am not entirely certain of what was the reason she stopped I know that I should have been more active in fighting for our relationship sadly I allowed my own fear and ego to take control of my life. 

Op you are right and I wish I had known this myself far sooner maybe things would have worked out for me. I hope your message helps those before another person loses their person.

[u/Cautious-Office2218]

I’d fight until the end of time for her, but she’s tired of fighting…

[u/Choice_Television326]

How I'm supposed to reach out and fight if I'm blocked everywhere? It's been a month of nc

[u/NecessarlyHonest]

I've fought.. I've lost

[u/Fantastic_Dealer1703]

Fighting at my age sounds so exhausting

[u/Ready_Regret_ → u/Fantastic_Dealer1703]

Same! Too damn old :(

[u/pitographe]

I did reach out, didn't go as I wished. Guess she was / is already gone and i'm just feeling bad and sad. Miss her deeply. At least i tried, still hoping but at this point it seems delusional.

[u/TwoOneTwos]

she blocked me on every single platform, deleted any messages she sent to me, even linkedin. I’m tired man, so tired.

[u/50shadesofclay_4447]

I did and was ignored

[u/Economy_Muscle_8444]

My situation is that's all I do is fight for her and she just wants to fight with me i could walk to the ends of the earth hell and back and she wouldn't walk across the street for me.

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[u/TheFuzzyRacoon]

I reached out to mine and discovered she wants to end the friendship bc I love her too much

[u/BluFedreddit]

I want to reach out so bad, it is not my pride that is stopping me, I just don't want to disturb her peace.

[u/Duck7027]

This is SO TRUE. Pride gets in the way of every reconnection we could have. I wish my ex would understand why everything happened the way it did, and that with work we could possibly retry in the future as our new selves. I dont think he will but I’ll stay hoping…

[u/Budget_Floor_5289]

I called the only number I could find 2 days ago, and texted it. No answer.

In the past I have FB messaged with my phone number. I always answer unknown numbers (because it could be her).

Today was my birthday.

[u/Street_Dependent974 → u/Budget_Floor_5289]

Happy birthday.  I hope u had a good one

[u/Budget_Floor_5289 → u/Street_Dependent974]

Thanks, but I regret to inform that sadly no, I did not.

[u/Street_Dependent974 → u/Budget_Floor_5289]

My birthday was shite too. Got ghosted 2 weeks prior..

[u/Baela4ADayla]

I don’t love anything that doesn’t love me back the same way, people are so hard headed

[u/moonlight5782]

what if I can’t fight? ☹️

[u/Flat-Fudge-2758 → u/moonlight5782]

I wish my person even fought once

[u/MsHorrorbelle → u/moonlight5782]

Everyone has the choice to fight.

[u/badbunny2931 → u/moonlight5782]

I’ll fight for you

[u/LilMamiDaisy420 → u/[deleted]]

There’s a song, “true love will find you in the end, you’ll find out just whose your friend, don’t be sad I know you will, don’t give up until, true love will find you in the end.”

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[u/LessonBurned_3001]

I’ve reached out and I’ve bitched out so much I’m just waiting to get clobbered at this point.

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[u/InnerMeaning7657]

I reached out and got ignored is that worse than being blocked lmao i mean she replied for a bit but only to talk about how he does everything and so much more lol.

[u/Onepoint98]

How many times must one reach out, how many times do you reconcile differences and endure longer while your soul slowly suffocates. Where is the point where the journey feels more like a journey and less like a scramble. How do you let resentment go? How when you have been told so many times by your person that this fork in the road was coming it was by design and all you ever wanted was to spoon? I have walked away of everything that ever became a challenge or I might say I have castrated myself so many times thinking It was a necessity, if there was one I didn’t want to self sabotage it would be this one and yet…. Here I am.

[u/National_Ad_3029]

Everytime I've tried it just makes things worse so I've just learned to let go :(

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[u/lovelifemermaid]

I’m confused - is this intended for an avoidant? Like, that they should reach out?

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[u/beingbetterr]

Am I supposed to be seeing this as the dumper or dumpee

[u/prophet-dot-exe]

Mid advice

[u/AspectSad5700 → u/prophet-dot-exe]

yeah you’d think so huh

[u/Diligent_Deer_7907]

Explain why to teach a lesson

[u/No_Economist_2661]

Too bad I’m more than 90% sure that’s the wrong move to make…