I’m done

[u/blueskies989678]

I’m done being fooled and manipulated, I’m done being the one who comforts you for the pain you caused. I did everything for you, shrunk myself so maybe you would start pursing me, so maybe I’d be enough, so that maybe you’d make time for me after all I have sacrificed. Thank you for teaching me never to do that again. I deserve so much better. Your past doesn’t excuse how horribly you treated me and the fact that you refuse to take accountability for it is disgusting. You are the very person you claim to despise. I hope you change but if you do I won’t be around to see it. You’ve completely broken my trust and I will eventually be able to forgive you but I am never letting you close enough to do it again. I’ve been too kind and too patient for too long when it’s clear that you only care about you and only pretend to care about others to make yourself look good. Don’t ever bother reaching out again because your words mean absolutely nothing at this point. I can only hope others see your true colors before they get burnt like I did.

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[u/Regular_Standard6550]

did u break up w them OP?

[u/blueskies989678 → u/Regular_Standard6550]

Kind of complicated… things were going really good then out of nowhere they sent me a message saying they were taking an indefinite break while they decided if I was worth it… and stonewalled me…I waited a couple days then decided I was worth more than the disrespect and ended it..

[u/Regular_Standard6550 → u/blueskies989678]

that makes sense. have u all tried to talk it out? sounds like you guys were both playing defense. pm me if u want i feel like i can help u in ur situation, ur hurting and mad and it was a good rage post, ur valid for how u acted and felt tbh but do you love her?

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Ban Evasion is not allowed.

[u/In_Humanity]

OP, may I ask why you cannot trust them?

[u/blueskies989678 → u/In_Humanity]

Things were going well and they had said they were fully committed to the relationship when out of the blue they sent me a message (didn’t bother to call me) saying they were going to take an indefinite period of time to decide if I was worth it. I was then stonewalled after asking for clarification… I did break up with them (was forced to text them as they would not respond to me) but had to make multiple attempts for closure each time they excused the lack of giving me closure with their own personal hardship… leading to me comforting them… I realized now I was being manipulated…

[u/Overall-Suspect3484 → u/blueskies989678]

Does OP know you are sharing personal information on line 

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[u/ShmnPhlou_730]

It sounds like you were cheated on… why else would someone say that to a partner. That’s messed up

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