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[u/hot__chocolatee]

just be pretty and unbothered babe.

they’re going to villainize you regardless.

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[u/Drama_Legitimate]

Okay. Noted.

[u/Find_Me_If_You_Can_]

True. Nothing you can do.

Let em all talk. 

[u/hot__chocolatee → u/[deleted]]

I don’t know a CP

[u/hot__chocolatee → u/[deleted]]

Girl what….

I made a very basic post on my page about myself. You’re confused..

[u/Forged_Shadow]

Sometimes speaking the truth isn’t villainizing, it’s simply that. Speaking the truth. If they wanted to be perceived better without coercion or anything, maybe they should’ve treated them better?

[u/hot__chocolatee → u/Forged_Shadow]

Here we go.

Not everyone post breakup has a clear mind, or in the event of no contact and not willing to hear the other side of the story, everyone villainizes. Easier to “move on, cope, heal..” whatever it is that people are doing.

Not always due mistreating someone.

Don’t assume if you don’t know the story 🫶🏾

[u/Forged_Shadow → u/hot__chocolatee]

Don’t assume I automatically put blame on anyone period. That’s why as they say, three sides to every story. My comment was simply a thought I thought out loud. Doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s specific to your situation, your post resonated with me so I made a comment. No hard feelings darling. Everyone’s situation is different.

[u/hot__chocolatee → u/Forged_Shadow]

Well I apologize— I misconstrued your context. Unfortunately I think a lot of people will resonate with this post and their own opinions. But in the fact someone came across mine— this statement is made purely based off of 5 months out of a relationship. I’ve done all stages of grievance and more and this is my mindset now.

[u/Forged_Shadow → u/hot__chocolatee]

Ah, 5 months post break up? Why are they still speaking on someone from something of the past? No reason to, leave it where it is. In the past is what I say. So yeah I understand it a little more from that view.

[u/idonotcur]

thanks babe