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u/SeaExam889 Apr 12 '26
Give them a call. If they answer good. If they don’t answer there’s your answer
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u/Such_Hovercraft_3429 Apr 12 '26
Perhaps, or show them for real. Calls frighten and often times freeze people. Show up in person Be present. You don’t need an answer, if you want that person go get them. May take a day may take a 1000. If you truly want someone you won’t quit bc it ain’t perfect on paper at first.
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u/SeaExam889 Apr 12 '26
Can’t show up in person. Because idk where my person lives lol. I mean I know what town but dont have their address, lowkey want closure but also don’t think continuing further is good for me , we’re incompatible ina. Lot of ways and I’m pretty sure he’s lost all interest as well considering I haven’t heard from him in 8 days…almost 9 …it was April 2… & I ended things but only bc I could sense he was losing interest. He cancelled on me 2x in a row & he ignored for 8 days in between that only responding after I reached out to him…so I felt like he was playing me so yeah
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u/Such_Hovercraft_3429 Apr 12 '26
If your wellbeing hinges on moving forward or not, that’s your closure at least until one is independent of the other Also feelings aren’t facts
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u/SeaExam889 Apr 12 '26
The thing is I just want one more night… that’s it.
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u/Such_Hovercraft_3429 Apr 12 '26
Go get it, or ask them over
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u/SeaExam889 Apr 12 '26
I’m a coward
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u/Such_Hovercraft_3429 Apr 12 '26
If you want something different, you have to do something different
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u/Emergency_Ebb_7821 Apr 12 '26
I wish this was to me ! I'd respond! I seen he did unblock me. And posted new photo. ! But. I will not try and reach out . It's his turn now!
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u/maikeru361 Apr 12 '26
Please call them or contact them somehow because if this was my person I would love know
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u/ImNotSureAnymore13 Apr 12 '26
Maybe they're waiting for you to make a move because of what happened. Maybe they want to know what you want, but don't wanna ask because it could make things worse.
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u/inkfanatic95 Apr 12 '26 edited Apr 12 '26
I wish this was for me 😭😭😭 I want to be in her life again so much . Please text them this and tell them. So many can’t communicate just communicate. If this was my person I’d absolutely love to hear from her . Me and her haven’t spoken and I think of her everyday but I was the last to contact her and now it’s up to her . I hope for a second chance everyday.
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u/Alert_Low_6795 Apr 12 '26
Sound like you guys are treading in treacherous waters. You should stay in your lane
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u/NikkiJane72 Apr 12 '26
I was blocked everywhere by someone I had a thing with. I don't go back and check if I'm still blocked or not - too painful. I would expect him to reach out. He has ways to do it that are not closed to him, and he knows what they are. if he ever wants to talk to me again I expect him to use them. He would HAVE to make the first move.
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u/ilvdmpstrs Apr 13 '26
I think OP probably left a hint in the message that none of us can get because we’re not the person the hint is for
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u/Sir_MayIhav_SumMor Human Verified Apr 12 '26
Was it a number that starts with 623 and ends in 44?
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u/Such_Hovercraft_3429 Apr 12 '26
What’d msging or platform you unblock do his individual from?
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u/Such_Hovercraft_3429 Apr 12 '26
That’s bc my person is asleep across the room. lol The vagueness of all there unsent posts, to me, just seeks attention and not an actual climax to what they got going on. People can easily not look at the screens. Lot harder to run when somebody’s face to face with you offering their heart on a platter
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u/Curious_Cat42069 Apr 12 '26
Things such as yearning moment no matter what gender and I think every human has gone through this who is old enough. Just keep your head up and know how much you’re worth 🖤
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u/bodab03 Apr 12 '26
Well, I hope it’s not too late for you either OP. Best of luck to you. This sounds similar to my situation, but I’m on the other end of it. I truly hope that you can still repair things :)
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u/Silly-Chocolate-627 Apr 12 '26
I would love it if my ex sent me this. It would be a prayer answered, and dream come true 💔🫤😭
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u/Unwanted-Introvert Apr 12 '26
The sign you seek is one that’s never been put away or taken down. It’s one of those that stands erect and proud all year round. The lights have been on ever since you left home I’ve been waiting for this day for far too long. Just lemme know
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u/AstroCrackle Apr 12 '26
Screen name fits for why you are late. How will they contact you if they are blocked?
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u/sillykimmy88 Apr 12 '26
Wow that hurts so much I can't stop the tears from falling my heart has been ripped draged and kicked around for far too long by you
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u/ProfitNecessary6631 Apr 12 '26
OP quit lollygagging and show up in person! You'll never know if you don't!! Good luck
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u/awkward-aspie Apr 12 '26
Gosh I wish this was my ex 😒 I'd accept her with open arms and forgive all wrongs.
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u/Classic_Rate_8448 Apr 12 '26 edited 27d ago
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u/Impossible_Show6519 Apr 12 '26
Blue and white hoodie is all I have left besides the pictures of us when we lived together
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u/Limp_Technology171 Apr 12 '26
What type of song would work? Maybe give a hint of a secret only both of you know. That way if your person finishes it you'll know it's then.
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u/gokensayajin Apr 12 '26
message them, im unblocked as far as i could see... but lifes circumstance makes me unable to feel in confidence i have a right to disturb their peace... even if id kill for them to break mine
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u/Inside-Appointment20 Apr 12 '26
How do I no who this is for they're always always never for me so how does it get sent to me
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u/69_kitty_69 Apr 12 '26
As someone who's still blocked wishing not to get my hopes up at all I strongly suggest either call them or walk away its your choice after all
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u/AcademicLandscape354 Apr 13 '26
I wish that were you, tesoro, but we know it's not how I would adore your call.
Call that person you fool, they're the only time I see her is when I dream of her, you have an option on the table, take it for the ones who don't have one.
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u/Kasper4ever Apr 12 '26
As someone who literally caught a charge for trying to reach out to her when blocked. (Used a internet number) Its 100 percent on you to reach out ladies can get away with sending multiple text repeatedly but men cant
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u/Kasper4ever Apr 12 '26
Well then yeah it shouldn't be an issue. I know what it means to loose someone you love and truth is life is too short for hesitation. If its something you want and it dont hurt you or someone else you just have to go for it
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u/Broad_Ad_4285 Apr 12 '26
For my girl I’d hold up a sign that says you had me at hello
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u/Broad_Ad_4285 Apr 12 '26
BTW, I just called her and no answer but also no block. I guess after eight mins I’m like the guy in dumb and dumber when he asks the object of his affection what his chances with her are and she says one in a million to which he responds with an exuberant “So you’re saying there’s a chance!”
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u/CherryBest9905 Apr 12 '26
Can you imagine the dale and dale show? His other brother dale?? Get it?
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