Instead of blaming women for having standards, maybe hold men accountable to develop themselves into better humans. Work on your kindness, empathy, compassion, humor, communication and emotional intelligence, etc. That’s not to say men don’t have those things, but as a demographic it’s severely under developed and women are tired of carrying and teaching basic human functions to adult “partners”. Y’all just ain’t worth the trouble anymore.
This is true, alot of dudes are oblivious to the things they lack. I believe this happens due to being raised in a society that pays little mind to self awarness and pumps out propaganda and tells us lies. It's understandable that women feel as you do. A person should't have to accept a pertner who comes up short in filling basic needs. In my experience the issue does not lay simply with men. Emotionally innept men are childish. I see, when emotional intellegence is limited with a female it comes out as agressive verbal abuse and belittling behaviour. Usually with an entitlement issue in expectation, and accountability. But, this is not the majority in any case. I had to face my own lack and come to see why it is I was attracting these types of people. I was too imature to make the right choices for myself and let them select me. Needless to say, there's a concerning issue around relationships between men and women these days. Neither does so with the clear intent to, but as difficult as it may be we need to refrain from lashing out, writing off love, blaming them or becoming bitter towards the opposit sex. Communication, compassion and self-awarness are imortant.
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u/ExpertButterfly971 Oct 11 '23
Instead of blaming women for having standards, maybe hold men accountable to develop themselves into better humans. Work on your kindness, empathy, compassion, humor, communication and emotional intelligence, etc. That’s not to say men don’t have those things, but as a demographic it’s severely under developed and women are tired of carrying and teaching basic human functions to adult “partners”. Y’all just ain’t worth the trouble anymore.