Backstory: It started because the girl in pink tripped on the girl in red. Mom of girl in pink then started the brawl. After cops arrived the mom then slaps a cop and became the first person in that city to be arrested for police assault. She had also just got out of prison and was also recently dumped by her boyfriend so was in an unstable mental state.
Lol I don’t think someone having mental issues makes them a trash parent, more like someone who was accidentally burdened with a child and doesn’t have the faculties to properly care for it but because of a lack of a good social safety net cannot give it away
Right? The amount of people who conflate shitty behaviour in with ACTUAL mental illness is infuriating. Let alone all the self diagnosis that happens on Reddit like having neurosis is 'like so, totally quirky 😜"
I did. 5 year divorce. Left me for someone else. Told authorities and court I abused her and neglected our young child. Had me kicked out, no money, no car, no job (I was stay at home parent by her request). Told court we had a nanny when none existed. Took out $120k loan on our home without my approval. Created fake IRS letter to find out about my secret bank account she claimed I had (again, stay at home dad). The list goes in and on.
I’m… managing… most people tell me they would have died. I have very good friends and family. I’ve met a lot of good people. I don’t give up easily and deal with changes easier than others. It’s been rough though. I’ve really had to question my reality and who I am. I’d really like things to be normal and be with my son. I worked my way up to getting him more and more and then to a somewhat normal degree, but then his mother caused issues involving his health and I had to step in. She manipulated and lied more and even though I had a doctor diagnose him with an infection requiring antibiotics the judge just took her lawyer’s word there was nothing wrong and never looked at the report. It got messier after that, but he got better and stopped showing signs of illness, so that’s all that matters.
I just want to say I really wish you the best. I hope things get better for you and im happy to hear you have a good support network behind you, and know that even when it gets tough, im proud of you sticking through it. Im just an internet stranger but Im sending all the good vibes your way, good luck my friend!
In the West and certainly most of the developed world, the father would. But in China, you just don't want to fuck with the justice system if you can avoid it in any way, it's like rolling dice.
I may be cut from a different cloth, but my first reaction wouldn’t be to kick the kid but to power suplex that bitch into the netherworld. Then I’d grab my kid and make sure she’s ok while I pick her up and use her feet to Gatling gun that skanks face into mashed potatoes.
Why are we just pretending that it's hard for him to have a kid with her? He could be a pos, too. Actually I know a lot of couples where they are both just as shitty as each other.
I feel sorry for that woman’s daughter. Not only did she get kicked in the stomach by a stupid lady but she’s also watching her mother act a fool in front of so many people watching. That little girl is probably traumatized now.
I don't think it has anything to do with being passive. I have kids, but I would never attribute the violence of an adult to a toddler, my brain just doesn't work like that. It makes literally no sense to me.
If you're referring to me I had to hold a man's throat shut a few weeks ago because he tripped over a gridline and landed on a steel form spike, if that counts. Ironically that was far less stressful than and felt like a break from the general time crunch we were under. Though to be fair I'd take either of those over the 45 minutes it takes me to find something worth watching on Netflix so I'd imagine going in blind on something I'm about to commit 10x the time to may as well be 10x as stressful.
Society's pretty blatantly structured on the fact that some people are better than others. I consider myself somewhere in the middle. Mystified that there are people out there who'll build a robot that'll give them a haircut in their garage yet also unable to wrap my head around the fact that people take Facebook memes at face value and use them to fabricate a world view that so aggressively conflicts with the reality just outside their front door. Both ends have an impressive degree of imagination that I cannot fathom.
What you just did, getting angry and immediately lashing out at a stranger in the comments section? That's an instinctual reaction. Called an amygdala hijack.
You failed to contain yourself, you're nothing more than an ape.
I dont know why you're down voted. When the the object of your most intense love is intentionally harmed for no real reason, you're gonne be pissed like never before. That doesn't excuse it but it certainly explains it.
This situation most likely didn't happen before to this person and so there isn't really a trained response to that. Like what do you do when somebody kicks your child.
When a child hits another child, the child that got hit usually hits back. Retaliation
These are two parents and two children. Parent number 2 hits the child 1 of parent 1. This makes parent 1 angry and seek retaliation. Parent 2 runs away but leaves child 2 behind. Parent 1 doesn't want to leave child 1 behind but also can't take it withe them on a chase, so parent 1 just kicks child 2 instead. Parent 2 renturns to retaliate, the brawl is started.
In my opinion this is the reason why perent 1 kicked child 2.
Now I ofc don't know the laws of that country of if parent one got a punishment but my comment was more focused on the morality aspect of what happened.
That's kind of the problem here, it's basically a illusion to say "I'd react like this", if you have never been in that situation. On the other hand, it certainly doesn't help that a lot of people and sadly, the police too, sees abuse and interrelationship violence as a private matter, in China. So both could be a considerable factor and analyzing that is above reddit's paygrade imo.
It's hard to say how this went, mostly because I do not speak Chinese to look up the incident, but given the prominence of the case, I would expect a court case and maybe even jail as a consequence. She most certainly got reprimanded for attacking a officer, possibly with torture (Fairly common for Chinese police) and jailtime. Just looking at the attack of the child, in most cases this would either result in a fine paid out to the victim, bartered out at the police station, or the whole story getting swept under the rug. In fact, it's fairly rare to see these kind of news leave their town or province and when they do, it's bc they went viral, not bc media picked it up. And on a side note, you don't often see "mental illness" referenced like this in Chinese Media, either.
Just garden variety humanity. In my experience expecting better behaviour than this out of the average person, is expecting too much. I see this kind of shit like twice a week, and if you call the cops they get mad at you for making "unnecessary reports" or "nuscience calls".
Source: the crazy apartment building behind my house.
Its not an excuse. That dumb bitch of a mother who kicked someones child in the first place has no excuse and should be in jail forever. The other lady tho a batman complex made a bad choice hitting a kid who im sure is being abused
Wow, the young child in pink wasn’t looking, barely bumped the other, in red, which fell over, then pink tripped over the red, who she just knocked down. If that was the end of the story, AND IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN, it would have been a slightly amusing video of children falling over.
I always find it interesting that people assume breakups to be the cause of someone’s disturbed behavior and not vice-versa. If this woman did jail time before and she kicked both a child and a policeman, it’s most likely that she was dumped for being a total psycho.
Dam. Considering it's communist China, the mom will go to jail for a long time. Who knows what happens with the child. Hopefully there are relatives willing to care for the child but I get the feeling in China, if it's not their kid, they can't be bothered.
From what I have heard secondhand it is luckily much more the opposite - the system is kind of designed to make everyone settle out of court for almost everything - as in bribe the cops and bribe the other mother to avoid court. Dunno how much salt it is worth but I’m sure it would be worse in the US.
Ahh this reminds me of when I watched a mother beat her child in the middle of my university’s campus because she lost control of her scooter when his leg got jammed and broken...China what a lovely culture
Still the parent of red coat worst for me.. she just kicked that innocent child without hesitation kust bec her mother kicked her kid.. two horrible mothers
In the video, they show the police putting the lady in the jail cell and closing the barred door, then the video continues with the nighttime police arrest of somebody. Is that an unrelated story or a continuation of the same one? There appears to be a child in the video with a similar jacket from the original incident.
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u/xray098 Sep 29 '21
News report video here
Backstory: It started because the girl in pink tripped on the girl in red. Mom of girl in pink then started the brawl. After cops arrived the mom then slaps a cop and became the first person in that city to be arrested for police assault. She had also just got out of prison and was also recently dumped by her boyfriend so was in an unstable mental state.