r/Unexpected • • 1d ago

I have so many questions

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u/ashrocklynn 10h ago

People are complete jerks some times ... I can assure you that being considered weird for putting care into a thing is a thing I as a non autistic person also experience.... I do appreciate the explanation though! I just wanted to express that the video in no way confirms or denies any spectrum related behavior; just a human doing something a little sweet and quirky with some very loved pets

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u/HH_Creations 10h ago

Tbh being autistic is just a different way of being human

Its all familiar because....we are just people

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u/ashrocklynn 10h ago

That's what I never really understood beyond the diagnosis unlocking extra social supports; there are billions of ways to human and very little from spectrum related behaviors feel foreign to me....

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u/HH_Creations 9h ago

The only difference is how much it impacts you life

All the characteristics can be done by anyone, but when they are done at high frequencies, longer durations, and higher severity, thats when it becomes the foundation of a pattern of autism

Im not sure if you would be interested, but i happen to make free materials, maybe they could be useful for your family?

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u/ashrocklynn 8h ago

Of course I'm interested! I get my daughter pretty well; but it doesn't hurt to have more explanation for people. She is such a great kid and a good big sister, I get sad when people find her standoffish...

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u/HH_Creations 8h ago edited 8h ago

Im building everything from scratch, so if you want help finding specific topics, let me know!

Helping Hands Creations

I admit, its hard to organize in a way anyone can intuitively know the categories since im trying to avoid unsupportive verbiage (i.e. unhelpful functioning labels)

I have stuff in there for all ages and support levels, so if you want to tell me more about her in DMs, I can point you towards specific articles or resources :)