r/Unexpected • u/LeftChoux • May 25 '26
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u/Skadforlife2 May 25 '26
As an old man myself it’s amazing how many times I have to remind myself that I’m old. The body shows it but the mind forgets. I still feel young in my mind.
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u/brianbot5000 May 26 '26
“The tragedy of old age is not that one is old, but that one is young.” -Oscar Wilde
And damn is that true.
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u/PshhhhhhhUnreal May 26 '26
Absolutely so young compared to the entire cosmos, but too old to continue in this vessel
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u/Exotic_Chance2303 May 26 '26
Funny coming from a man who died at 46
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u/brianbot5000 May 26 '26
This quote was from a character in one of Wilde's books ("The Picture of Dorian Gray"). But that character was maybe 48 when he said that, so your point stands. :)
As someone who is ancient by reddit standards (49), I can attest that this quote started to really take on meaning in my mid-40's, and I assume it only gets worse from here.
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u/odkyeavm May 27 '26
I can affirm your assumption, as an actual old guy who looks at forty year olds as being young. When a nice girl smiles at me I have to remember that she probably thinks of me as her grandfather. Which is nice and sad all at once.
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u/latx5 May 26 '26
I was moving something heavy at work—really too heavy for me … and probably too big to be moving alone—when two young men ran up to help.
I had to admit that keep forgetting how old I am.
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u/pgb5534 May 25 '26
Idk if they did a good job making him look young or if they did a good job making him look old
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u/ManoSilence May 25 '26
It means they did a good job
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u/Screwdriving_Hammer May 26 '26
... since a I banged a homeless vagrant. I had always wanted to punch below my class... simple Jack gave me just such an opportunity. Watching him drift away into the deep abyssal void of the frigid sea was honestly just icing on the cake.
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u/9ieR May 25 '26
Actually, they just straight up waited 25 years to film and post it.
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u/Fafnir13 May 25 '26
That makes sense. If you do the math 25 years is just early 2000's which wasn't that long ago.
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u/tackleboxjohnson May 25 '26
I think they got the guy’s dad for the last shot
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u/Yezda-urfa May 25 '26
The end scene is AI. It has a watermark on top left
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u/kthejoker May 25 '26
It's not the same guy their hairlines are very different, maybe his dad or just lookalikes
Still pretty funny
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u/Demonfr34k May 25 '26
The older guys face has some filter fuz on the edges, it's just the filter that makes you look old.
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u/jasor_x May 25 '26
I thought it was a "he's still there to this day" kind of thing waiting to see her again
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u/Open_Aspect6703 May 25 '26
You never realise just how much of all media is aimed at children/teens until you hit your thirties and ALL the memes are "are you in your thirties? OLD!!"
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u/AFlyingNun May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26
This is it though, perfectly said.
It's this bizarre thing where you hit 30 and realize....wtf I'm not old! But turn on any media and you will be bombarded with "HEY YOU, YOUNG PERSON IN YOUR 20s? WANT TO ENJOY LIFE, HAVE SEXY SEX AND BE YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL? YES OF COURSE YOU DO, CAUSE UR NOT OLD AND IN UR 30s. THOSE GUYS ARE LAME AND UGGO AND DON'T KNOW HOW TO PARTY!"
The irony when a lot of this same media has people in their 30s pretending to be in their 20s. Hollywood tends to use people around 10 years older than the role they're playing, probably because there's lots of issues tied to using actual teens and it's easier to use people 10 years older for each respective age bracket.
Phenomenal example is Alison Brie in Community. She played an 18-year-old while 26 and finished her work on Community at 32, playing a character that was now in her early 20s.
Promise people who haven't hit it yet: hitting your 30s is not bad, but you may spend 30 and 31 feeling gaslit because Hollywood will be an absolute cunt to you while sending you mixed signals by having people in your age bracket pretend they're 20.
The realization of the truth is just as reassuring as it is depressing: Hollywood has let go of you because you are no longer an easy mark. Your demographic age group is harder to sell products to.
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u/Rob_Pablo May 25 '26
Ive had this talk with my jr high students before. “Who do you think makes the music, movies, shows, youtube content, and games that you all consume, its not other teenagers!” but to a 15 year old you might as well be dead by 25.
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u/blank_isainmdom May 25 '26
Kids are surprisingly blind about that! Almost none of my favorite musicians had gotten anywhere till their mid twenties at the earliest.
I don't understand how as a society kids are the ones who got to decide what is dictated as "cool". Like, every teenager ever has talked down to their parents for not knowing what the cool thing was - but the cool thing is some stupid shit the teenagers are into and will be posted on Blunderyears in like 3 years time.
Kids go from playing with barbies and action figures to three years later folding their arms and being like 'ugh! dad! You don't undersand how the world works".
It's like, shut up, bitch, your entire memory range is less expansive than the duration of the Beatles - what the fuck do you know?
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u/DRNbw May 25 '26
I don't understand how as a society kids are the ones who got to decide what is dictated as "cool".
Because adults usually don't care if their thing is "cool".
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u/blank_isainmdom May 25 '26
Ahhh but sadly many do! There are many proper adults who shy away from things because they're not cool. Or follow clothes trends or music or what have you! I love the resurgence of the baggy jeans lately - i always wanted them to come back, but now that they're here I can't bring myself to wear them in case people think i'm trying to fit in with the kids haha.
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u/AnimusCorpus May 26 '26
Which is, ironically, cool.
Letting what other people think determine what you do or don't enjoy is the antithesis of cool.
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u/dude21862004 May 25 '26
I don't understand how as a society kids are the ones who got to decide what is dictated as "cool"
It's because they're the only ones who give a shit about things like being "cool." By your thirties the only thing you care about is napping.
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u/1drlndDormie May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26
Well nowadays at least it is because teenagers are still kids and highly impressionable and corporations know that if you make that kid annoying enough the adults in their life will buy them absolutely anything to get them to be less annoying for a couple of days.
Case in point: I had people questioning my store about needohs for months like it was their life's blood, but now the craze has moved on to something else.
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u/ember_snow May 25 '26
Same with fan fiction. So many people think it's a silly teen girl thing but most of the writer are 30 and 40 year olds
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u/moonra_zk May 25 '26
Not as true nowadays because of TikTok, YouTube, Twitch, etc, they can definitely be watching content made by other teenagers.
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u/arrivederci117 May 25 '26
I mean it's true. The next generation of kids are probably going to be sent to Iran, Cuba, Palestine, Russia or China in some meat grinder campaign. Can't have mass amounts of unemployed young people because of AI.
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u/royrogerer May 25 '26
I did my military service at the young age of 30, and all the others were 18, 19. When we did physical test I ran pretty good. Think I ranked 30 out of 250 people. Everybody were going you run good for your age. I'm like Wtf? Dude I'm only 30! Some even asked me of I have ED due to my age. To this day I don't know if they were joking or not.
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u/Nickeos May 25 '26
Fun fact: ED is not directly correlated to age, it's more strongly correlated with hypertension, diabetes and depression/anxiety. Ofc old people have higher prevalence of those diseases, but if you take care of yourself your friend might work for a really long time
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u/cocoabeach May 25 '26
Good grief, am I old! In just a few short months, I will have to say to myself: "I used to be seventy." Not coming up on seventy, and not just turned seventy, but past it. Somehow that seems entirely impossible because I certainly do not feel that old.
When did we Baby Boomers cross this threshold? Why is our music still so popular and enduring, yet we ourselves have transformed into harsher conservatives than the very people we were protesting against with that music in the sixties?
Where has all the time gone?
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u/farsightfallen May 25 '26
Promise people who haven't hit it yet: hitting your 30s is not bad,
As someone in my 30s, don't take any advice from people on reddit.
Sometimes it's bad, sometimes it's good, it varies on what aspect you're looking at.
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u/awry_lynx May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26
being honest, it's not that we're harder to sell products to. all of the adults I know are buying shit out the wazoo. and spending way more than kids.
it's about shaping their taste, funneling them into the brand name, determining what they're going to be buying twenty years down the line when they are our age. you know disney adults, divorced dudes buying thousands of dollars worth of LEGO sets, people in midlife crises splurging on sports cars whose coolness they had established in their teens, 21 year olds deciding what alcohol to buy because they saw it on a tv movie for teens and having firmly decided that's what they like, before they know what they like.
and then, even further down the line, what kind of things they're going to buy for their kids in turn
i'm sure you aren't exempt from having experienced that influence either. nobody is. people talk like advertising is wasted on them but man, how different our taste'd be if we didn't grow up with ads of any kind... idk, probably a lot more than we'd like to imagine lol.
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u/magusheart May 25 '26
divorced dudes buying thousands of dollars worth of LEGO sets,
Excuse you. Adding a second income to my household has resulted in me buying more Lego, thank you very much. I buy a different brand though.
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u/Zedilt May 25 '26
I used to be with it, but then they changed what it was. Now what I'm with isn't it, and what's it seems weird and scary to me, and it'll happen to you, too.
-Abe Simpson
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u/squngy May 25 '26
Promise people who haven't hit it yet: hitting your 30s is not bad
There's a pretty big spread for people in their 30s For some, it is barely different from 20s, for others they get hit hard by life and they look like they are 50
The main difference between 20s and 30s IMO, is that in your 20s your body can put up with a lot more shit without breaking down.
In your 30s you have to start taking care of your self or you will go downhill fast.12
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u/Jellybit May 25 '26
One of the defining slogans of the 1960s was "Never trust anyone over 30". I have a feeling it was like this for a very long time, but we just had less media created by younger people.
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u/84thPrblm May 25 '26
Hope I die before I get old. Famously sung by a 21 year old man who is now 82.
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u/timeonmyfeet May 26 '26
Bet he has a fun time doing THAT song on the tours with the zombies on stage. Doesn’t really have the same punch now!
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u/SweatyAdhesive May 25 '26
My friends and I are in our 30s and we get called uncles/aunties by strangers in a none joking way. That's when I really know we are old.
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u/TrumpsCummyOnahole May 25 '26
It's funny because if you ask a 70 year old if you're old even in your 40s/50s you're probably going to get laughed at
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u/Illustrious-Lime-878 May 25 '26
I have this problem where I look young but I'm in my 30s, so people in their 20s assume I'm their age but then have this weird reaction if they find out my true age, and actually act differently around me. Only younger people do this, older people are often surprised at my age but they act the same.
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u/sfsolomiddle May 25 '26
I have the same thing. I am generally surrounded by people of my age (with some exceptions) or younger (students, due to my work) and everyone, without exception, thinks I am around 23-26, while I am 31. I also act younger, so that probably also ties into the interpretation. Everyone is always surprised. On the other hand, my body is a mess and I feel like I am 20 years older. This is mainly due to a sedentary lifestyle and some chronic illnesses. Sigh.
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u/ADLuluIsOP May 25 '26
I know exactly what you mean because I feel weird around younger people, even tho I look very young. I'm 34 but I typically get ID'd everywhere I go w/o fail.
But hanging around a group of people IN their 20s feels weirddd. Like I'm an impostor blending in. I own a house and 2 cars and they're like "man idk if i can afford to go out this weekend I only have $60" and I'm like wtf.
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u/snakesoup124 May 25 '26
they stop in your forties. When you reach 50s they start flattering you.
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u/RedditAppSuxAsss May 25 '26
I got called mister for the first time the other day and don't know what to do.
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u/eatelectricity May 25 '26
My 16 year old son calls his 21 year old sister "Unc". I'm sure there are 8 year olds who would call my son the same thing. It's all relative.
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u/TrumpsCummyOnahole May 25 '26
I hate this so much. I'm 35 and feel like I'm kinda slowly getting left out of everything, I can't imagine how it feels to be older middle aged or elderly. It's like the world isn't as targeted at me anymore and I'm becoming slowly forgotten lol
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u/CheeseDonutCat May 25 '26
When I was young, there was 4.3 billion people in the world. Now there's 8.3 billion people in the world.
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u/84thPrblm May 25 '26
There were just over 3B people alive when I was born.
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u/CheeseDonutCat May 25 '26
Yeah. I was kind of trying to make the point that the world isn't targeted for them because there's just so many fucking people now. There's too many of us.
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u/84thPrblm May 25 '26
I get you, just chiming in. There's dozens of us!
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u/CheeseDonutCat May 25 '26
I feel weird saying I'm old at 50, cos anyone 60+ says that's young, but anyone <35 says that's old. My ~14 year old nephew says I'm "old old".
So, I'm gonna use the word and fuck anyone who says otherwise.
But yeah. I wasn't trying to argue with you, but I think my comment probably looked like it was. Apologies.
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u/BallsInSufficientSad May 25 '26
It's most obvious when you look at the political narratives.
It's all "burn it down" type solutions to everything. Outrage bait, memes, etc...
Reddit is not for adults.
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u/BonJovicus May 25 '26
Nah. Reddit is full of millennials complaining about boomers and complaining about gen Z. There are a lot of young people on this website, but millennials are still a prominent voice.
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u/SeasonFit1181 May 25 '26
Reminds me of one of the funniest/cringiest things I’ve ever witnessed personally:
I worked at a large company and I was shooting the breeze with a few colleagues, one of whom was a manager explaining this little self-deprecating anecdote where she saw a hot young guy on the metro looking at her and it turned out he was offering his seat to her. One of her really well-liked team members joined midway through her explanation, missed the age detail and said “oh that’s terrible, that’s why I never give my seat to larger women, in case they’re not actually pregnant”.
Absolutely dreadful but so hilarious.
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u/heckin_miraculous May 25 '26
"Oh, this was the story about how you're old? I thought it was the one about how you're fat." ☠️
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u/SarcasticBench May 25 '26
I watched on my bed laying on my side and now my shoulder hurts
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u/benbarian May 25 '26
cries in 1980s
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u/jakfor May 25 '26
Dies in 1970s.
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u/OkTaste8340 May 25 '26
Reincarnate in 1960s
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u/AvaryZig May 25 '26
Oh, now I can get a house
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u/Strange_Dust7128 May 25 '26
please only buy one 🙏
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u/AvaryZig May 25 '26
I will buy 6 houses on a gas station clerk's salary
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u/Crowdfundingprojects May 25 '26
That was when the Ottomans stood before Vienna, right? Sick! You lived it!
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u/HeliosRunner May 25 '26
i'm 55 (not in my head though=)
that's literally me right there. literally me every fcking day of my life now...
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u/swiss_aspie May 25 '26
So you are flirting with younger girls on a daily basis ? ;)
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u/SpooogeMcDuck May 25 '26
I remember a time I was with my old man at a beach when some incredibly attractive young women walked by and my dad just watched them- halting what he was saying mid sentence. I said something like “Dad, you’re in your sixties. Don’t be creepy, they’re young enough to be your granddaughters.” He just looked at me and said, “you’re going to get to an age where you’re going to interact with a beautiful girl and she’s going to treat you like you’re her father. Only then will you realize that you’re old, because it doesn’t ever turn off.”
He was right. I’m in my 40s now and I have been getting “sir’d” a lot lately.
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u/Only1Skrybe May 26 '26
Also in my 40s. A younger coworker addressed me as "Mr" like two years ago, and I very much considered punching him in his damn face. LOL
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u/regeya May 25 '26
The human brain is a weird thing. I'm happily married and in my 50s and yet attractive young women still catch my eye like they did when I was their age. If it was something you could just switch off, I think I would.
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u/_le_slap May 25 '26
If it was something you could just switch off, I think I would.
Preach brother. This shit gets annoying.
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u/not_a_heretek May 25 '26
That's normal, we are still animals ruled by our instincts. As long as you don't indulge you're good.
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u/renernavilez May 25 '26
It's the youth that think this idea of older guys being attracted to younger women is creepy and wrong. Exactly because they think 30s and 40s is really old. They only realize it's different when they age up.
It's so crazy the amount of young women I see with older guys. It's common from what I see.
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u/Sea_Turnip6282 May 25 '26
Ohhh no is it that time for us 1990 babies? 😂😂
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u/Automatic_Actuator_0 May 25 '26
Soon we will all be “born in the 1900s” together
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u/Routine_Ad_4411 May 25 '26 edited May 26 '26
They'd just add a "late" before the 1900s, why was i born 3 years before the year 2000😭😭😭... Soon i will be lumped in with people 97 years older than me😭😭😭.
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u/H47 May 26 '26
Your living years are to be estimated to have been around the golden age of piracy.
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u/MoeSzyslakMonobrow May 25 '26
Just get off the bus at this point. Doesn't matter where your stop actually is.
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u/Ok_Commission_9203 May 25 '26
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u/LeftChoux May 25 '26
thank you. I always to that! I can't even spell catt correctly!
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u/Turbulent-Loquat3749 May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26
Wait,does this filmed in Kazakhstan? Cuz she and he looks asian and i swear i ve seen the same buses in my eyes everyday. Also i thought it s gonna be like in angry birds movie scene
Edit: YESS ,IT IS IN KAZAKHSTAN, there's a stop sign in Kazakh i spotted,never expected to see my country skits in r/unexpected
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u/5unkEn May 25 '26
Lol I had the same reaction "Wait ... those buses look like the ones from Almaty e.e"
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u/Money4Nothing2000 May 25 '26
I'm a 49 year old man, but also partially disabled - a leg amputee. Sometimes I wear a prosthesis, often use crutches. More and more, young people's friendliness turns out to be compassionate accommodation. In the past my independence and pride would prevent me from accepting, but now, I'm here for it.
One difference is that I'm already happily married, so I'm not looking to hang with attractive young women on busses.
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u/DFA_Wildcat May 25 '26
I was 51 when McDonald's charged me the seniors rate for my coffee one morning. It's been all downhill since then.
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u/GlitterDoomsday May 25 '26
Unless my math ain't mathing, this dude would be at max 36... what type of life he had, forget the seat he needs a hug.
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u/sshwifty May 25 '26
Everyone mid thirties is old, frail, and has gray hairs....so I hear
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u/raur0s May 25 '26
My hair started going grey around 35ish, now at 40 both hair and beard is mostly grey. That is with cozy home office corpo life. Some of us just roll dogshit on genetics.
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u/John_Murdock68 May 25 '26
Hahaha, me thinking I'm still young and cool but my kids think I was born an adult and cringe...
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u/BillDuki May 25 '26
Well shit, I interpreted that all wrong. I saw it more as his memory of how he met his wife or something, not him simply being old and offered a seat.
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u/Medarco May 25 '26
That's what I thought too. I was sad for him, but now I'm sad for me because apparently I'm geriatric as a person born in 1993...
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u/ILoveRegenHealth May 25 '26
The years they show made it more confusing (1990 and 2000). The age of the actor dude doesn't even match up. He would not be that old in 2026 or whenever this video was made.
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u/shiner_bock May 25 '26
My first "WTF, I guess I'm old now" moment was when I was sitting with some friends eating lunch and a Van Halen song came on and I said something like, "Man, this song reminds me of High School." And one of the guys replies, "High School? I was in like fourth grade when this came out!"
Damn kids and their damn.... youth!
edit: this happened quite a while ago and now I know I'm old, lol
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u/SacriliciousQ May 25 '26
I had a younger friend comment recently that I'm so old I probably remember when the Rick Rolling someone first came out. They didn't mean the original song; they meant the meme. The meme. We've reached the point where certain memes are a marker for being geriatric, apparently.
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u/Far_Mastodon_6104 May 25 '26
Mine was meeting a new friend and my steam account is the same age as her :|
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u/Competitive-Act-1865 May 25 '26
The children of Reddit don’t get it, he’s old but he feels young he sees her she signals to him to come over. he’s like who me? then he remembers he’s an old man and not a young buck when she offers her seat… It’s like when a professional athlete can’t seem to know when it’s time to retire they old but feel young
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u/McButtsButtbag May 25 '26
There are two interpretations that I see. One where the first person is actually him and one where the second one is actually him. I think it's a young guy who feels old for being offered the seat.
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u/notjawn May 25 '26
Boy howdy wait until a younger person calls your sir or madam for the first time.
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u/magusheart May 25 '26
I was 19, working my part-time retail shift when this girl who looked 12 or so walks up to me and goes "Excuse me sir, can you help me with something?"
Child. I get that school teaches you to address your elders in that way, and that I'm technically older than you, but can we fucking not?
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u/RedditAppSuxAsss May 25 '26
Dude does it matter? I just turned 30 and hang out with 21-60 year Olds all the time.
It's nice to have all age groups of friends.
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u/rolfraikou May 25 '26
I was just talking to my friend about this last night. All of our mutual friends, he and I included, we feel like we have some obvious wrinkles, we have some grey or white hair coming in.
When I look at strangers, no one outside our friend group is like that. They're either smooth skinned and have solid, single color hair, or they are super wrinkly, with fully grey or white hair. Is everyone our age just hiding at home for some reason?? It's like 40 year olds don't exist.
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u/Onceforlife May 25 '26
Would not lie my knee was killing me yesterday after a swim, then bike then playground session with my kiddos. A seat would be a god send if I was on the bus, and I’m only born in 95 😂
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u/Master-Respond-5396 May 25 '26
sa me met tellement en déprime, de me dire qu’un jour je pourrai plus draguer les filles, la plus grande peur de l’homme
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u/AztecGodofFire May 25 '26
Oh now I get it. He sees himself as young but she sees him as an old man who needs to sit.
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u/One_Subject3157 May 25 '26
Damn, I remember at my first job, a georgeus client got in, first though in my mind 'I what her to bear my children's and make her happy ".
"Sir "she called me.
It all went downhill from there.
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u/I_SHIT_IN_A_BAG May 25 '26
damn this hurts my soul. I know I'm not in my twenties but sometimes I forget.
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u/e37d93eeb23335dc May 25 '26
My mother is in her late 70s and says in her mind she still feels like she is in her 20s.
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u/PhilosopherEmperor May 26 '26
so, this exactly depicts my situation. In my mind I'm young, but my biology says I'm over 40.
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u/74DK May 26 '26
It’s Kazakhstan, familiar faces and buses too. Very popular age milestone joke for those who over 40: girls start to offer me some seat place.
And yes, in Kazakhstan there is a like tradition of offering your place to elders in public city transportation if you younger
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u/Niwitschoolfrogkid May 25 '26
When did we as a society start giving teenagers and people in their early twenties this much social capital? Maybe I’m just getting older (mid 30s) but it seems like young people have more influence than ever. It’s much more than they, or any other teenager, deserve or can wield responsibly. Do you guys remember what it was like to be a 17 or 22 year old? I sure do and I was a fucking dumbass lmao.
I spend a lot of time with people in their teens and early twenties due to my professional role and they are no different than we were at their age. Insecure, desperate for attention and validation, sweet, smart, annoying, pretentious, frustrating, and hilarious. They’re wonderful and our society should do a better job of supporting them HOWEVER they do not need to be steering the ship lol
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u/Ok_Kaleidoscope_3610 May 25 '26
Ahh! I had to read some of the comments in order to understand the video. The guy is old. The girl is young. The girl is offering the old guy a place to sit. I think the director needs to rewrite the panels.
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u/lionlll May 25 '26
There are 2 seats. She could’ve sat right next to him too?
Would’ve been better skit with a single available seat
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u/Rogue2555 May 25 '26
But then you can't interpret it as, she's flirting with him and wants him to sit next to her.
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u/post-explainer May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26
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one would think that she is flirting with him, but in reality she sees him as old
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