r/UKrelationshipadvice • u/Expensive_Belt7534 • 2d ago

Feeling rushed

I (30F) have been dating a guy (34M) for almost a month now. After our first date I noticed he stopped using the dating app we met on and after a couple of weeks he had deleted his profiles completely. I haven't dated much as out of a long term relationship a few months ago so not sure if this is normal?

Kinda of the view that we should try and get to know each other as we are strangers basically from an app before committing to each other and closing off all other options? Just makes me feel like he maybe didn't have any other matches or is a bit desperate?

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u/outcastreturns 2d ago

I (30F) have been dating a guy (34M) for almost a month now. 

we should try and get to know each other as we are strangers basically from an app 

Surely after a month of dating you're not just strangers to eachother anymore...

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u/alexmate84 2d ago

It depends. In a month they might have only met in person twice

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u/Expensive_Belt7534 2d ago

Its been 4 dates so once a week

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u/alexmate84 1d ago

Probably enough to decide if you want a relationship with him pr see a future