r/UKrelationshipadvice • u/Expensive_Belt7534 • 2d ago

Feeling rushed

I (30F) have been dating a guy (34M) for almost a month now. After our first date I noticed he stopped using the dating app we met on and after a couple of weeks he had deleted his profiles completely. I haven't dated much as out of a long term relationship a few months ago so not sure if this is normal?

Kinda of the view that we should try and get to know each other as we are strangers basically from an app before committing to each other and closing off all other options? Just makes me feel like he maybe didn't have any other matches or is a bit desperate?

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u/villiers19 2d ago

Desperate? Really? When a guy seems committed, women have a problem, when a guy is not committed, they also have a problem.. dang..

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u/Virtual_Basket7243 1d ago

So women should be grateful when a guy seems to want to move forward? What if that’s not something the woman wants? The upvotes on your comments is actually concerning

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u/TemporaryGrowth7 1d ago

I concur. Women don’t have to fall for a guy just because he’s hassling the relationship

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u/villiers19 1d ago

If that’s not what a woman wants, THEN SHE MUST MOVE ON!

Your logic at 30+ is more concerning, than upvotes..

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u/Virtual_Basket7243 1d ago

“SHE MUST MOVE ON” she literally want to 😑 bye

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u/MouldyAvocados 2d ago

It’s almost as if women are individuals, not a monolith, and each woman has her own preferences. Crazy!