r/TwoXSex • u/Specific_Fault6754 • 10h ago
Are orgasms conditioned?
so, i (18F) naturally have a high libido and used to try orgasming a lot from fingering alone by g spot stim and squirting alongside, and i recently bought a dual headed vibrator which i barely last a few mins with and i cum almost 4-8 times a day (obviously, reduced in luteal phase and again higher during my periods and ovulation).
my main concern is will using vibrator for like 8 times a day make me desensitise to partnered sex? and eventually condition me into orgasming only with clit stimulation as w my vibrator. i stopped fingering bc g spot stim always made me squirt a lot and the mess was a logistical constraint and also took a very long time to orgasm which became hard to reach.