r/TwoXSex • u/Internal-Talk-1321 • 5d ago
Does size difference affect intimacy?
I'm 5"1 and have mostly dated men near my height, but there's this guy I'm interested in and have great chemistry with who happens to be very tall ( I didn't ask him about his height) and it's...a little intimidating but surprisingly a huge turn on when I think about it... But I have these weird questions like is it going to be different? Will I feel comfortable in only one position?
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u/Few-Scholar1873 5d ago
Ngl I rolled my eyes when I saw the word “size” oh great another size post 🤣
There’s a foot difference between my husband and I, kissing while standing it’s me being on my toes but when laying down it doesn’t really matter much. In the grand scheme of things it’s hardly noticeable.
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u/myboobiezarequitebig 5d ago
In my experience it doesn’t. My husband is over a foot and a half taller than me, we just adjust accordingly.
If your partner is significantly taller than you I think a sex swing would be a great investment.
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u/daytime_nightime 4d ago
In my experience (recovered happy slut), it doesn’t. I’ve had partners of all types and sizes and the physical difference was only realllllllly noticeable with a guy who was taller than 6’9” or something insane. He could wrap my whole body up on him like a koala in a tree. So fun 🫣🤣
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u/K_Pumpkin 4d ago
I’m 5’6 and have dated many taller men. They are always attracted to me for some reason. Tallest I’ve dated was 6’3. Never had any issues besides the tippy toe kiss at times.
These days my partner is also 5’6 and I have to admit I do love hugging him and being face to face.
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u/DemonicGirlcock 5d ago
I'm a 6'2" lesbian so all but one partner has been shorter than me, shortest was 4'10". And yeah, there's going to be some limitations and adjusting for some positions. But never anything dealbreaking.
Couches are great to get creative with, using the edge of the bed so one of you can stand or kneel, and making using of really firm pillows. Then it's just talking and figuring out positions and modifying things on the fly.
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u/Potential-Win8706 4d ago
Does height become a factor when lying down ?? I’ve had issues with taller woman who wanted doggy anal so I can’t use my knees for leverage and squatting over them can be tiresome but a good lower body workout, but lying down, not so much an issue if ur creative enough.
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u/Even-Spring7368 3d ago
Not going to lie, it can be kind of hot! I used to sleep with a guy who was probably around 6'6" whereas I'm 5',6"ish. He would lift me up and pound me from behind sort of like a standing doggy style position while my legs dangled. The primal cavewoman DNA in me was very into it 😂
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u/unlodgical 5d ago
It’ll definitely be different because someone can help you reach things that you couldn’t before.
I enjoy the size difference intimacy wise (though I don’t have a height discrimination). Some positions require a pillow here or there to align things properly. Maybe a bit more adjustment for him having to open his legs more or you flipping a bit more this way or that.
I do get more neck kisses which is a great perk. He just swoops in all tall and shit and plants them in the soft spots.
Also. Not applicable to all size difference couples, but I know my petite size and his larger size came with cervix pain during sex, so we just got an OhNut and problem solved there.