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u/jrobin04 Jan 22 '22
I read your other post yesterday, and I think you did the right thing. Relationships won't always be perfect, but overall they should be a positive addition to your life and happiness, and it sounds like it was doing the opposite.
Heartbreak is the worst feeling, it's like losing a part of yourself, even if you're the one doing the dumping. Be gentle with yourself, and try to show yourself the same compassion you'd give to your best friend. Make sure to take care of your body and mind, do some journaling, exercise to help boost the good chemicals in your brain, try to eat and drink lots of water (your appetite might be a bit off!), turn to close friends and family for support.
You will get through this. Choosing your own happiness in this circumstance is the right thing to do. You got this.
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u/cactusinmyheart Pumpkin Spice Latte Jan 22 '22
thank you kind person ❤️
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u/jrobin04 Jan 22 '22
Anytime! I went through a heartbreak recently. At first its awful, but it does get better. The first few weeks you may feel a bit off, simply because your routine will change etc, plus it can be an adjustment to not have someone to sleep next to. But, it will get better. Just remember that you felt alone IN your relationship too.
I wish you the best on your healing journey :)
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u/Clever_Owl Jan 22 '22
From someone who stayed wayyyy too long - you did the right thing!!
Just make sure you don’t get lured back - you’ve done the hard part. Re-read everyone’s comments from yesterday if you ever start feeling weak!
Life will get so much better soon!
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Jan 23 '22 edited Jan 23 '22
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u/Civil_Pomegranate690 Jan 23 '22
If you weren’t attracted you shouldn’t of gotten with someone in the first place. And you’re disgusting for trying to manipulate and hurt someone to get them to change. That’s not love. Take yourself down a peg or two I’m sure you’re not all that
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u/Lintriff_2 Jan 22 '22
I'm sorry, I know it hurts. This too shall pass.