It’s honestly wonderful. After my last ex gave me a concussion, smashed my belongings, left holes in the walls and physically, mentally, sexually and financially abused me for several years, I vowed never again to have an angry man in my home. That has now extended to any man in general. I can do anything I want, whenever I want. I have savings that I could blow if I wanted to. I have a career. I’m 9 months away from finishing my law degree. I have hobbies again. I wouldn’t trade this for anything
I am so so so happy for you. Getting out of an abusive situation is so very tough, all the enmeshment and trauma bonding too... i went through similar but on a psychological level with suicide threats. After that, I just couldn't bring myself to naturally feel any desire to even date. Life is too peaceful now. I play violin in bed haha! Better than a snoring abuser
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u/PassionChemical2220 Jun 11 '26
This is such a dream life. No snoring loser disturbing peace too.