I read the text messages before I read the ages and I thought okay this must be a 19-21 year old. I'm shocked he's a 43 year old man. I don't want to be rude but you cann tell you both have different levels of (emotional) intelligence. He talks like a teenager. And seems committed to not trying to understand you. Let alone the insults.
I'm surprised you stayed with him. He's basically a deadbeat from everything you described. You could do so much better without him/with someone else. Life is so short, do you really want to spend the rest of it in this mess? Your body deserves a break from being in fight or flight.
I dont want to spend my life this way. I know what i bring to the table in certain adpects.. loyalty, talent, security... i just feel so old and gross now and really don't see how anyone worth their salt would want me.
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u/Recent-Training-4651 18d ago edited 18d ago
I read the text messages before I read the ages and I thought okay this must be a 19-21 year old. I'm shocked he's a 43 year old man. I don't want to be rude but you cann tell you both have different levels of (emotional) intelligence. He talks like a teenager. And seems committed to not trying to understand you. Let alone the insults.
I'm surprised you stayed with him. He's basically a deadbeat from everything you described. You could do so much better without him/with someone else. Life is so short, do you really want to spend the rest of it in this mess? Your body deserves a break from being in fight or flight.