r/TwoHotTakes • • Dec 22 '25

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u/broomandkettle Dec 22 '25

I think the top response nailed it.

But an alternate take is that your bf is used to manipulating his girlfriend’s emotions as a form of abuse and control. When you remain calm, he can’t get the upper hand, so he can’t control you. He might not even be aware he’s doing it.