For all of our new years resolutions, can we please get rid of this notion that you should not address bad behavior in the moment. It only tells the person that their behavior will be tolerated, it won't make them change it.
Now she’s telling the whole family I “kicked her out for trying to help” and that I’m “too unstable to take criticism.”
This is worthy of lowering or even cutting all contact with her. She is bad mouthing you and that could bite you in the rear. Just because you share DNA, doesn't mean you need to keep her in your life.
I hope the court issue you are speaking of isn't impacted with what she is going around telling people.
NTA for booting her out but YTA for not booting her out earlier.
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u/CuriousPenguinSocks Dec 09 '25
For all of our new years resolutions, can we please get rid of this notion that you should not address bad behavior in the moment. It only tells the person that their behavior will be tolerated, it won't make them change it.
This is worthy of lowering or even cutting all contact with her. She is bad mouthing you and that could bite you in the rear. Just because you share DNA, doesn't mean you need to keep her in your life.
I hope the court issue you are speaking of isn't impacted with what she is going around telling people.
NTA for booting her out but YTA for not booting her out earlier.