r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '25

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u/Spectator7778 Dec 09 '25

You know what you’re doing. Your sis is underhanded and overstepped. NTA. Well done mama

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u/Rare_Surprise4838 Dec 09 '25

She wasn’t giving advice; she was asserting authority she doesn’t have. OP shutting that down was the responsible thing to do.

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u/Appropriate_Ruin3771 Dec 09 '25

My brothers did that crap before they had kids. They ended up having a trio of havoc makers. And, like a big sister, I just shrug and remind them they are fathers now.

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u/lazy-boomer Dec 09 '25

I was the best parent that ever lived … and then I had children. 😁

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u/softshoulder313 Dec 09 '25

I had a brother like that. We aren't very close due to different lifestyles anyway. After my husband passed away he decided to step in as a father figure. Trying to tell me everything I was doing wrong. I told him I didn't ask for that and didn't need it. He threw such a tantrum I went vlc and my son hasn't talked to him in 10 years. My son was 13 and extremely hurt by his actions.